alottomuster

Breakups, ugh, I know of no worse pain. Actually, the feelings leading up to a breakup are the worst, but like you say, we shall be grateful for all feelings we experience and not name them as good or bad, they just ARE (feelings). So thank you for the awesome reminder. I didn't call you back because I had not been straight up with you, I imagine you could sense that I too have herpes and I do have a friend with a virus but I was the real one reaching out for help and you were awesome. I just felt like a loon for playing it off like I didn't have it and my friend did. I'm pretty sure you come across this more often than not. I'm accepting now, I can talk about it. I will tell guys friends that I have a virus that many people have. It's up to them to stick around. No one is alone.