Hello all, I just found out I'm positive for HSV1 two days ago (igg >8). I was with a "friend" and gave her oral sex a couple of times. About two weeks later she started having some severe reactions to something. She went to the ER where they first couldn't find an answer. After another trip to her doctor the next day, they visually diagnosed her with herpes. No blood test were done. She finally told me but we wasn't sure who had it first because she had been with a lot of partners but she never has had any symptoms and the coincidence was too strong. I went and got tested and once I found out I had type 1 we figured I gave it to her. She is still going to be tested but since I have never had any symptoms I had no idea I had it. How am I supposed to know that I'm more likely to pass this on to others? I would have never done this knowing but I don't want to do it again. So am I just not going to be able to know? Should I just avoid any contact in the future now? Do I only need to be concerned passing this orally? Sorry for all the questions but there is a lot of contradicting information on the web.