Just want to share my story. I am together with a girl who has genital HSV2. As far as I know I dont have the virus. To me, it honestly doesn't change anything. She disclosed it, after 5-6 weeks dating when we made the relationship official. We had protected sex before she told me that. I was really cool and just said that's okay and we went on. Then 3 weeks after I freaked out about it because I read some more about it and started to do some research. I spoke to my Dr. twice and also with my parents. And now, I can say I am 100% cool about it. She will ever be the person that conquered my heart, wheather having HSV or not. To all of you Women out there, being afraid of disclosing it - just don't be afraid. Herpes is one of the milder diseases that you can get. If someone sees that as a reason, not being together with you or dating you. Then he's clearly not worth it. Just think of really bad diseases for example cancer. If he runs away from you because of herpes, imagine what he will do when you have cancer. You should probably thank him to show his clear face.
And I wouldn't say it straight away. I would say it if I see that the "relationship" is getting serious, but not before.