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Yeah she went to gp who was hell bound on the fact that it was the h... Swab came back negative,... She had burning urine and severe pain... Said she could barely sit or stand.... I haven't talked to her lately...... She said she had little red spots...... It sure makes me want to clam up and shut down..

Koolkat, you seem like you must be a young buck, and I was thier once. Generally herp aside, may I say, it's fun a lot of fun chasing the strange new girl here and There.. I'm older now and my chasing days are slimming down unfortunately I learned the art late in life... I'm pretty average like I said... I'm not going to be on the cover of an ambercrombi shopping bag anytime soon.... So, I figured out what worked for me.. And we'll now I'm old and all that young hot tail, well it's still young and hot and I'm old and kreepy now.... What I'm saying is I wish I had cooled my jets at an earlier age... I have let a lot of great excelent women go by...... And h has put that into a little more perspective for me.... And I get your concern about chasing tail every young Americans dream... And I say that because sorry gals my experience its equal on both sides when it comes to playing the field... We don't live in 1932 anymore.... If you sit back and really look at society its a giant fuck feet out there. Plenty of opportunity, but the day comes when your old and you have nobody because all you know is meaningless sex... You can still chase and get laid, just make it more then a one night stand, and disclose you will end up with some good fb's... I still played the field with h I always disclosed it might take a few days get to know them and warm them up to the idea of sleeping with you. And your self warmed up for the disclosure.... But always disclose.. Because when you do find the one you will have the practice under your belt...

I wish there was better education about this stuff, we are just so un educated in general... I just hope that it didn't spread to her southern regions... I'm scared to talk to her unless she talks to me..... I mean it is over between us, pretty sure she hates me now... I need to be more selective I guess... Everyone talks about herpes being a good weeding thing however I still seem to jump into the shallow relationships...

I slept with her after my diagnosis

Well, like most people they don't think cold sores is herpes. She said she has gotten cold sores before, but hasn't had them in a long time.... I don't know... She could be wrong about it actually being cold sores

I have 1 genitally,

Vaginal, came out negative

Antibody

I only ask because although my gf has left me at this point I still hope that those swabs were accurate and she doesn't have it. She gets cold sores or has in the past, so an it test would probably not say anything

Beside you never know they might say yeah I have it too

And you and I know the shock and all the emotion that goes on when u are first diagnosed, women are very emotional stock, in general...

True, I know of relationships and even marriages that have been broken up due to not disclosing on purpose... Think about it what happens when u find your bombshell and u get married and u haven't told her, then one day she says hey my vagina is rotting off I need to go to the doctor... Well, she gets diagnosed and a she thinks you cheated on her, or it come out in the open and your a lier... Boom done... Relationship ruined.. Better to disclose.. Think of it as you have to.. Be very matter of fact let them do thier own research if they want too... Give them time to think about it... Amd play it cool in the mean time..

No I meant they have not had a problem with giving me blowjobs

Lol "fussy" I like that. just sex usually sex with a condom, I have had some of the best sex in my life with the h... The women I have had seemed to be more committed to me give me more respect throughout the relationship, and more open about what they want in the sack... I mean if your honest and let them know you wouldn't do anything with them if u had a O'B They tend to give the same respect back

What do they say about the accuracy?