officer195

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ob started Christmas Eve morning. She started meds the next day. She doesn't complain but I know she is hurting. It started out small but has grown, stings and is starting to leak. She is sick and wants to rest.

For the first time I'm very angry at the woman that gave me this. Not because I have it but because I gave this to someone I adore, love and care for. I feel so helpless...

2legit, I waited longer then that after the outbreak, but I'm thinking she actually caught the virus during the outbreak on November 19th. Which at the time I didn't know it was an actual ob since I never had one in the first place. Talking her today I've found out it is so much worse for her the it was for me. My heart hurts that I gave this to the woman I love. :(

Funny, that's what she basically said to me. I just feel bad, I should've protected her.

I am in that boat. Didn't really know what I had till it was to late (ob). Feel bad knowing I gave this to her. I asked her to sign up and get plenty of feedback from you. Thanks for all your past help.

We are still getting married but this wasn't what I had hoped for. We though she was in the clear since the tests came back negative, but she had an ob on Christmas Eve morning. This is just killing me that I gave this to the love of my life.

She acquired it the day I had my out break, :(

Christmas morning I fond out out that my girlfriend/fiance has contracted the virus from me. I feel as though I've totally let her down though she says I didnt. The symptoms seem to be worse for her since the breakout is forming under her lips near the opening of her vagina. feedback would be helpful. It is one thing that I have it but then to give this to someone you care deeply for is something I'm finding very difficult.

craziness. Well I have it and now I will work with it. Thanks for the discussion.

So what you are saying is, no matter if a person has a blood test and it comes back negative a person could have the virus even though they were tested to be negative due to a incubation period so they may be actually positive???

I have learned more being on this site than anywhere else medically. The last person I had sex before December was August - October 2014 a woman I was dating. Before that was May of 2013, dated 3 months and before her was May of 2012 and she did have herpes but we never had inner course just oral.

The woman I believe I contracted the virus from happened last week of December, 2014. I got the rash or a very minor outbreak while we were having sex which we had all that week. So then I got tested in January of 2015 which I do every year on that month.

January of 2015 I was tested and the test came back positive. My outbreak was November 23. It cleared up by Dec 7, 2015 using meds. We had sex on the 12th.

roger that