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Hi,,a few things have happened so bloods delayed..booked for 2 weeks time..i,m still getting all the same going on without a break! For the past 3 weeks I,ve had a swollen bartholingland,,is is anything to do with h?? A few more spots on my butt too that appeared with no warning..

Not sure what happened there..i also looked at the site you mention and I,m going to get bloods done,,need to know either way so I can get on with life,its been on hold since that night.lol yes eye swab also asked for mouth swab nut doc just frowned at me.she gave me an iodine surgical wash yesterday which I used Las night but still sore down there today,I,ve not been offered meds as my swabs have been neg.thanx for your help..xx

Wow that was worth reading..crazy..hi sil88 thanks for that

Is there anyone on here from the uk?? If so did they have any probe getting bloods done?? I,m not mad and don,t need to see a psychologist!! Gggrrrr

Ok so went to GU again today,another spot was swabbed this time in my pubic area,I asked for a blood test and doc said she was very reluctant to do bloods because if it turns out positive for h I will lose the plot a bit more and suggested I see I psychologist!!! Wtf!!! I came away a mess..if I pay for private doc will they do a blood test??

The spot had a small head on it

It was a spot,I,ve not had any blister type spots..they don,t itch they just appear and not on my genitals,I,ve been using medicated baby powder down there and it seems to help

I know you never said that and you were just informing me the only way for kids get it..the spot that was swabbed was there in the morn and swabbed in the afternoon..will ask about mrsa and bacterira on Tues..thanks for your advice.

Another thing the soreness down below seems to get worse the same sort of time everyday(late afternoon)?

Also still sore around my bits,the aches in my butt and legs have gone now but twice i got a numbing from my but down my legs and if i didn,t have something to grab i would have fallen..have you ever heard of this with h?

Hi,,there is absolutely nothing going on with my babies that shouldn,t be..i would kill for them as any other parent would..just so scared that I can pass it if I have it...my swab results came back negative,I,m still convinced I have it tho because whatever is going on down there is still going on...nearly 12 weeks now!! I keep getting spots come up on my butt and back of legs,not in clusters..i,m putting germoline on and covering with plasters..i have another appointment on Tues so am going to ask for blood test.

WCSdancer2010 thanx for reply..at the mo I can,t contact this bloke(I want to hire a hitman) gu in uk is sexual health,the doc I saw last week was great,she was more concerned about my mental health than if have h,,we talked a long time and told me over and over that if it is h it will be ok we will deal with it...the future of my children is the main thing that's tearing me up,i,m so scared of passing it to them even tho i,m told i can,t..this is killing me i,m in a real dark place at the mo and if the test comes back pos i can,t see it getting better..

Had a spot come up on my bum so went and had it swabbed,still have a week to wait for results,had 2 more come up yesterday,the gu doc had a good look down there and couldn,t see any lumps bumps or sores on my girlie bits,she took internal and external swabs also swabbed my eyes as I have a white gunk occasionally and it was there on the day,still sore down there and now have puffy veins on the back of my legs,,does this have anything to do with h?? The doc doesn,t think my spot looked like h but I,m convinced it is.

I can,t do it!! Can,t bring myself to contact him...aaarrrggg I,m going nuts!! Still sore,not spots..pin prick all gone..

I,ve known this bloke about 3 yrs and he til me he last had sex over 12 months ago which I do sorta believe,,

Thank you all for replying,I,m trying to stay calm but keeping it in is so hard!! I don,t have a single spot today so am going to cancel appointment,,I,m still sore tho..i hugged my babies Last night and even kissed their cheeks..if I can get hold of the bloke I slept with could he be tested now? Would it show if he was just a carrier? I have another 6 weeks to wait until blood test unless another spot comes up.

I,m a pain so sorry...since yesterday I have been getting a sort of pin prick feeling all over my body?? Is this anything to do with h??

We don,t have urgent care in my area just appointments.my doc was crap and told me its all in my head!! Its not in my head..can a blood yes be done Friday?? I,m gona get gu do to check down there again as well..I,m so lost!! I,m scared to touch my kids and they are so loving and want cuddles,I,m making sure I,m covered from neck down before I cuddle them..i,ve so messed our lives up..

I,ve also lost over a st in weight,is this a result of h or just stress?? I can,t eat and when I try I feel sick.

Hi,thanx for replying,feeling real crap..i have appointment at gu on Fri,will the doc be able to swab the spot on my butt? Looks like a whitehead? I,ve also been having lower abdominal pain and an ache under one eye but gritty feeling in both eyes..my he's is wrecked!! I wish i could post my circumstance but so scared..

Hi,,thanks for letting me join,,this is going to be a long post!! Ok,,6 weeks ago I had a moment of drunken madness,2 days later I had intense burning all over my girlie bits which lasted 3 weeks,a couple of days after the burn started I had an ache go down my inner thighs which only lasted seconds,I also had spots come up on my pubis area which looked like shavind spots..i went to the docs 4 days after this drunken night and was swabbed for stds( all clear) so 4 weeks on I went to GU clinic as I was sore down there,she checked for signs of genital herpes(saw nothing) but said I had thrush,was also retested for stds and sent away with a pill for thrush,the pill never worked! I have had lower back ache and aching buttocks since week 3 and the odd ache in my groin,I shaved 5 days ago and have had more spots come up which do not blister or hurt and disappear in 2/3 days,no burning when I pee no flu symptoms.6 weeks now and 2 days ago I had a really bad burning bum which has now settled but a little itchy..oh I also had a real so spot on my butt ( day 3) which was like a normal butt spot but hurt a little,I am still getting sore spots on my butt which disappear within days..can someone please help!! I have been trawling the internet and its messed my head,some say yes defo herpes and others are saying no!! I,m in a real dark place at the mo..thanks