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I have had herpes since 1989, I have been married twice, my last husband passed away 2 years ago, he never got it, now I met a new love interest, I always disclose, and told him the stats and told him I take valcyclovir daily, he was cool but then he texted me he has an itchy rash down there, I am so sad, tired, devastated. I have never transmitted it before and have not had an OB since I can remember, last year sometime, maybe. He is not texting me or returning my calls, just ghosting me entirely. Someone on this thread said there is an on-line dating website for HSV2 peeps? I might be interested in that, had not investigated that, can someone send me the link? Not that I'm jumping right back into the pool but that does seem like a better option??