RLB

Hi there. New here and was only diagnosed a few weeks ago. I have no idea what I'm looking for in an H buddy, to be honest. I'm just trying to figure things out and move forward. Most days I feel I have a decent handle on things. But others, I'm like "I'm 38 years old! I managed to stay "clean" all this time, and now... my FIRST post-separation/divorce relationship and I get herpes. FML." So I suppose I'd just like a buddy who's been there/done that. Or even someone new to this H-club to commiserate with. I'm sure anything would be great at this point.