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I told him last night and he didn't care! He has had a couple HSV2+ GFs in the past. Called it a "non-issue and a minor inconvenience", he was more concerned that I had been stressed out than about the HSV2. I think this is a keeper...

I am so glad I found your success story! I am in a similar situation and talking to my new partner tomorrow.

Thank you for your support! I have read the information about disclosure and I will probably use some of it. He is a intelligent, reasonable person, but I won't blame him for being scared for his own future and upset about the current exposure and not wanting to go further in the relationship. I am just hoping i didn't transmit this to him. I am freaked out about my own diagnosis, but not nearly as much as I would have been when I was younger. I have HSV+ friends with successful marriages, relationships, etc., so I know that life goes on, but it will be that much harder.

Hello! I've been obsessively looking at this and other sites over the past few days as I received a positive HSV2 antibody result on Wed morning. I got the test at the behest of my new boyfriend who had recently had a negative test and wanted me to be tested as well. We then proceeded to have unprotected sex for the last month! He is one of those men who has trouble with condoms. I have never had any sort of obvious outbreak, though I have self treated many yeast infections through out the years. I was married for 20 years and there was never any outbreak that my husband had either. I have only been with one other person since my marriage ended, but it is possible I got it from him, I suppose. My question is how do I tell my new lover I am positive? I feel so horrible that I have have exposed him to this! I am concerned that it will be the end of our relationship. I have not seen him since the lab results came back, but we have plans to get together tomorrow night. I am so sad to have to tell him this.