Denise226

Yes he was specifically checked for hsv 1 and 2 and it was negative. I’m going Monday to get swabbed to confirm but I have these questions in the meantime. That’s is why I’m concerned. If he’s negative... and I have it yet it didn’t come up in my blood work.. meaning I haven’t produced antibodies yet then doesn’t that mean I got the virus fairly recently? If I’ve had it for a year or two or 10 even without outbreaks wouldn’t I have those antibodies in my blood by now?? Ps we have been together for 6 months and he got tested two months into our relationship but he did have other partners prior to us dating.

On this past Tuesday I went to the dr and she said I had lesions on my anis and it could be anything but she did an std test. Wed night second dr looks and confirms it’s herpes but blood test is negative. Current bf got tested two months into dating me and his test was negative. My questions are 1. my partner is negative but I am not.(waiting on more testing) If it hurts to go to the bathroom because I have herpes in my rectum, how did they get there? If he’s the only one I had anal sex with in 10 years. 2. If I was the carrier and that’s why he is negative then shouldn’t it have shown in my blood test since I’ve had it for at least 6 months if not longer? 3. If I had my first outbreak and blood test of negative does that mean I’m not a Carrier and I’ve rescently been exposed to it?

Ok here we go. I’ve been with my current bf for six months. We’ve had unprotected sex vaginally and anal. About a week 1/2 after our last anal intercourse my Butt started to hurt. I became constipated. I went to the dr and she gave me laxatives and then tested me for stds. Bf was tested a few months prior to us dating and he was negative. So they get my results in and I went in today she said I was negative for everything but my white blood count is low. I ask her to recheck my Anus because I feel more bumps then I had on Tuesday night when I first came in to the dr. She said visually she believes it is herpes and gave me valtrex. She said if the medication works that is a good indicator that I do in fact have herpes although my blood test was negative. She said since this is my first outbreak I haven’t developed antibodies and that’s why it’s not showing in my blood. Here’s my few questions 1) did I get it from my current partner? I feel like if I had it from my previous bf I might have had an outbreak in the two years I was with him and also more importantly we never had anal sex. Why am I getting my initial outbreak around my anus and not my vagina if I haven’t had anal intercourse in at least 6 years besides my now current bf. It seems more reasonable that I got it from him (current bf) since he is the only person who has had access to that area(Anus)and now I’m having an outbreak. 2) if it is my current bf and we have regular sex as well as anal why am I not showing sysmptoms in or by my vagina? Also he is getting retested and I don’t get how mine is negative cause of no antibodies.. if he has never had an outbreak then wouldn’t his be negative as well? Since he doesn’t have antibodies yet?? Please help