On this past Tuesday I went to the dr and she said I had lesions on my anis and it could be anything but she did an std test. Wed night second dr looks and confirms it’s herpes but blood test is negative. Current bf got tested two months into dating me and his test was negative. My questions are
1. my partner is negative but I am not.(waiting on more testing) If it hurts to go to the bathroom because I have herpes in my rectum, how did they get there? If he’s the only one I had anal sex with in 10 years.
2. If I was the carrier and that’s why he is negative then shouldn’t it have shown in my blood test since I’ve had it for at least 6 months if not longer?
3. If I had my first outbreak and blood test of negative does that mean I’m not a Carrier and I’ve rescently been exposed to it?