Just diagnosed

[Nancy]

I was just diagnosed and I dont know what to do or where to turn. I'm just devastated. 

[GeminiiGoddess]

remember that you're not alone. It is a hard pill to swallow and doesn't have a pleasant taste, but sometimes life just happens in ways we don't understand. Remember that you are still worth it. Your value doesn't change. Now you just have to make some adjustments. Don't be scared! First and foremost, if you need additional support feel free to contact me. I can tell you with time.. it heals all wounds. You will be able to date and have a normal life. It does has it days, when it sucks, and you don't want to pass the disease around. The only thing I can truly tell you that I wish someone could of told me.. is to not beat yourself up. You are your worst critic. Beating yourself isn't getting you nowhere. You have to accept it, and try to move on from it. Meaning try to love yourself the same, even though part of you isnt the same. Your worth is the same. Your current situation isnt your final destination. Maybe you should take this time and really focus on you despite the urges. Speak with your doctor about daily virals, change your diet, exercise more often. I found that taking daily vitamins, Vitamin C, lysine helps. Drink plenty of water with a HIGH PH such as esentia or Pure diamond  And ALWAYS practice SAFE SEX. Be the change you want to see.