Sunnygurl

Hi. I’m a 26 year old female located in nyc, feel free to message me ❤️

Hi. I feel the same way. Maybe we can support each other. I been living with this for 6 years, currently 26 years old. I went through everything you’re going through & feeling, and sometimes still do but have had some successes along the way. Today, I want to give up. I rather die than continue to feel these things and have to be strong. I don’t want to be strong anymore. But I can’t give up. I can’t kill my self. go to another doctor then. That is not his choice

Is being asymptomatic worse than symptomatic? In a way? Because you never know when you’re shedding? Question my potential partner asked me. Any advice for a asymptomatic person when disclosing or dating?

@mr_hopp Thank you so much for your response. Today, he gets his results. I also been searching for a doctor online because my primary doctor is 100% nonchalant about it and I don’t want my potential partner to think idc or it doesn’t matter. He has personally told me that he doesn’t screen patients for Hsv to avoid having these conversations. Said he’s old and doesn’t give a shit about bumps here and there. -___- Is there any advice that you have for someone who is asymptomatic when dating or disclosing? My partner asked me if being asymptomatic is worse than showing symptoms

I wanted to add that I have family members & friends who I know are also Hsv1 positive & they are living their normal lives. Idk if it’s because it’s type 1 but it crushes my world to see others live normal while I struggle with this mentally and internally

Hey. I’m a 26 Year old female who has been Hsv2 positive since 20 years old. I recently got tested & have now build up antibodies to hsv1 as well. Been on this forum for this 6 years. I’m asymptomatic, so no symptoms. I struggle with this mentally only when I have to disclose or when I’m back to single and dating. Mostly 7 out of 10 when I have disclosed, I’ve received good reactions and acceptances. I’m currently dating someone who has been hesitant but has tried other routes to be intimate with me. Still sleep together, kiss, cuddle, even masturbated together one time, but the love has been growing as we keep going out together and having fun then end up cuddling. We’re falling in love & so I pushed back. I decided to stop because it’s hurting me to not experience the full thing with him and be reminded every time that this is the reason why. Everytime we’ve gotten to the point of wanting to have sex and we don’t keep going, I cry. We spoke & he said he’s stuck. Doesn’t know who to talk to or who to go to and that it’s hard. He said he thinks about this everyday and goes to sleep researching it. I told him there’s people to talk to. Professionals. Including me. The one in it. We decided together ( he him self said ) let’s go to the doc. My primary doctor told me the first step should be to find out his status. So he’s going to get tested tomorrow to find out his status and then decide how we will be moving forward. It’s been giving me so much anxiety. My mind is making up all the worst negative outcomes because he has already been hesitant for months. I should have stopped a long time ago or tried to speak about it more instead of just going along with what we were doing because I was liking it. I feel alone & ashamed all over again like when I first was diagnosed. 😞 I feel like I don’t want to live anymore because I have to go through these uncomfortable conversations & emotions. Because of this stigma. I’m not even physically affected by this. just looking for some encouragement or support to remind my self that if this doesn’t work out, I will get through and still find the love of my life! But it’s hurting me sooo bad to think about loosing him and to think about how I will have to do this my whole life. I’m over whelmed. Life is already hard enough 😞 this makes me feel weak, depressed, anxious

Hey I’m a 21 year old female from New York. I was diagnosed 2 years ago and I’m looking for Buddies to get to know, chat with, who can relate and also need help and understanding with H. This site had helped a Lot. I had a bf at the time that I was diagnosed and he was very supporting and stayed around as we have been friends for a very long time. It was hard to tell him. He said he still loved me and wanted to be with me. Eventually, he was diagnosed with h too. The truth is, the doctors didn’t educate us enough, or we didn’t worry to much because we had each other or thought he must of already had it as we been sleeping together for over 1 year already. We didn’t know that we could of protected him by maybe me getting on medication even tho I didn’t have out breaks. Eventually we started educating our selves on the matter. He’s been here to listen and talk and help me , but I notice it maybe effects me more than him. For the past year, we have been going through some differences and H has began to hit me as I began to think about future partners. We have had many conversations about it but I want to grow further with this as I will be dealing with it for the rest of my life. With that being said, I have told friends over time, but I’ve come to realize conversations with them do not really help me because they do not understand. Why be alone when there’s so much support out there.. If you would like to chat or get to know each other, message me. - love , L.