I was just diagnosed in November (I’m a girl ) I went to work and I was dying for me I just kept a water bottle handy when I had to pee I’d just use the water bottle to dilute it from burning sooooo bad and I had to wear sweat pants and take my panties off at work because of the friction. But the water bottle and nope wiping just siting water helped and it was on my butt so i couldn’t go number 2 until it went away because it was so painful to try. But the first initial outbreak is the worse like they say that part is indeed true