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Hey Katie, I appreciate all the good words you have! I know you are so right! Thanks for the love!! :)

Hey everyone especially hi to Adrial! It's been some time since I have been on here and it was nice to get a friendly reminder in my email to stop by to say hi. I recently moved 2 months ago from New England to Florida. So, I have not had a chance to date or to have the energy to date anyone. Although, I love the idea of dating something's holding me back. I don't really believe so much it's the fear of rejection or want to believe it but something way in the back of my head knows that has to be it. I have this wall up and I can't seem to let it down. I need to be reenergized and so here I am! I am so tired of being alone and would love to be able to be in the arms of someone again! I know this site is a great site for some reenergizing and some good vibes!

This has to be such an envigorating seminar! I am envious that I can't be there but am so excited as hoping this will be the first of many seminars you have so I can join in next time! Hope your enjoying! Chrissy

Dora08 dont be scared. It does need skin to skin contact in order to catch the virus. I mean its possible she could get it but I bet you that your mind is playing more tricks on you than you think. I have to say I used to be so very OCD when it came to H and thinking I would get it everywhere and that was because I had a weak mind. You probably didn't even have contact with her like that but because you "think" it touched her lip you are scared. It's ok, she will be fine even if she does catch it. Hang in there I know it can be tough.

Adrial, You are truly one of the most soulful compassionate people I have ever met...well virtually that is. Just in watching your video clip, I can see your sadness. It's amazing what life has in store for us and we only grow stronger each time. We can't fear the unknown we just have to embrace it.... for whatever that is thats in store for our future. I am in a circumstance right now where, I am too am nervous of my future endeavors as, I am moving from my hometown in New England to Florida by November and I haven't really told anyone yet in my family and the clock is ticking loudly. I know it will break my mother's heart and I don't want to do that, but my son and I are in need of some major positive changes. It's just the two of us and whatever is going to happen, I see the future as positive. We are ready to start a new chapter in our life! So, Adrial its all ok, you'll be just fine. %%-

Hi Guys, I haven't had a chance to get on here since I wrote this post. Some days, I try not to think of H and it seems to be those day's when I see a story and I have to give myself a reality check. I never thought of comparison feeding the muscle, but I like your point. Thanks Lelani! I like the idea of a gratitude journal. There has also been something I have been doing for some time since someone told me one day was to remember to thank god for your misfortunes not just your fortunes... I know some people arent religious but, I am and this helped me a lot. %%-

Sounds good! Hook me up ~O)

So, I really had to share this story and I am sure most of you have already seen it or heard about it. I sometimes used to think why me why does it have to be me to have this. Well life could be harder right? I was recently watching the news and realizing have watching that horrid zipling accident with the 19 year old girl who lost her legs and arms and she had a smile on her face enjoying life and was asked if she asks why me and she said it crossed her mind once but said this is just how the cookie crumbles. We really need to all be thankful for what we have.......... Sounds cliche right?

Hey SingBlueSilver, It can be quite normal to feel like you have a bladder infection and maybe that once a month is around your period? My new experience once in awhile is feeling like I have a UTI. I never had that feeling before but it can last for a couple of days and then its gone. I personally.... and this is not a dr's advice but from my own research for myself over the past 14 years that I try to take a daily vitamin and find that superbcomplex works well just hang in there you are ok! Hang in there SingBlue :)

this made me laugh! so funny! <3 it!

So, I just mine refilled. I use the acyclovir because it just seems to work better for me. I'm supposed to take it twice a day 400mg but I only take it once a day. I definitely need to supress. I paid 15.00 for a 90 day supply. Valtrex is one of the most expensive meds out there. Always ask if you do have insurance if you can do a 90 day supply its always cheaper than a one month. If I were to pay a one month supply its 7 dollars (generic) so, Its cheaper for me to get a 90 day supply but you have to ask your Dr. to write it out for you that way IF your health insurance will pay for it that way. BCBS does.

Happy Birthday!! Hope this day is a wonderful day and it's so nice knowing the warmth and compassion that comes from this site! xoxo Chrissy %%-

Adrial.... that name has a nice ring to it ;) Ok, so, I was thinking of sending this message through email but, I am just going to say it here and anyone can think I am crazy if they'd like lol Last night before I went to bed, I said to myself. Hmmm...Dale huh. (premonition was setting in). (I'll get back to this in a moment) I will be honest, I don't blame you for a second. I may have just done that same exact thing. Honestly, I put up my picture on here a couple days ago and then, I said hmm what if someone sees it that I dont want to see it, so I then took it off. The next day, I did the same. Mostly becuase of my picture and that is being associated with my real name. Finally, I said you know what, anyone who is coming to this site is only coming because they have this problem or maybe are researching because their soon to be partner has this virus. So, maybe if they see my picture they will know, wow people put their face out there with this virus so maybe it's not that big of a deal! Besides you put your face out there too. Adrial, you did a courageous thing. Not just amazing not just awesome. It was courageous. It takes courage to gain the power to overcome the obstacle. (said in my own wordsB-)) You've done it! We can all learn from you. I know we all feel shunned by this virus and the only way to get rid of this stigma is to just be ourselves to be loved for it and for people to get OVER IT! Thanks for telling us, and I don't think you need to apologize to anyone! It's something that is understood. Now getting back to the beginning of my message, I sometime's get premonitions, (call me crazy) but only when something big is happening that is going to impact the world. I firmly believe with all my heart you have done an amazing thing and you have helped so many people and more are about to follow your lead. Im proud to be here with you! Congrats AND NOW I HAVE TO MEET YOU! :D

Your welcome! We really all just need to remember its as big of a challenge as we make it. Hang in there Virgo Girl ;)

Hi virgogirl, I'm so glad you're inspired by this story. Don't let it hold you back and you deserve the very best! So go for it!

Hey, So, honestly, I don't think its too late to tell her what happened to you in the past. You need to let her know you are ok and that you take preventatives but you took it a step too far. You always have to disclose to someone even if you jumped too fast. Honestly, it's in her hands on what she wants to do. I really do hope you used protection. Just be honest... people can be very forgiving. It can be a tough conversation but it will only make you stronger. Good luck!

You are right!! I am going to hope that something changes because I really could use this experience! Big hug back at ya! Great job!! >:D<

I'm actually extremely disappointed, I won't be able to be there, I was really hoping to meet you Dale and gain some long lasting friendships from this. Unfortunately, with me starting school full time and working full time and my son as well, it's not looking like it will be a possibility. I am quite bummed. This event looks like it will be such a great experience!

So, this is my first post and It was great speaking with you Dale just recently. Anyhow, I had recently started dating someone and decided after about 4 weeks it was time to tell him that I had herpes. Well, lets say it was rushed, nerveracking and totally uncomfortable. We got along great, and it was nice to finally meet and date again and feel good about myself. Then the herpes talk came. Mind you, I have had herpes for 13 years now. Finally, I disclose to him and he was very kind and truly nice about the whole situation. Unfortunately, he just couldn't do it. He wasn't up for the challenge and that's ok. Now, let me tell you it was disappointing and I was sad, but honestly, I know I am a great person and my time will come when I meet someone who can accept me for who I am and what I have to offer them in life. For all of you who are struggling with this virus I know it can be hard at times but it is what you make of it and it can make us struggle mentally just as well, but it's not the end of the road... It's the beginning. Just hang in there! This virus does not define who you are as a person and don't let it control you..because it can and it had done it to me for a long time. Now, I am accepting of it. It's ok, I am alive and well and things could be so much worse in life! I'm so grateful for everything and everyone in my life. Just remember, life is not about sex. It's just a small part of life that we enjoy. A very small part. Don't let herpes control you. Anyhow, I am on the road again and just about to start dating someone else. It's only been a few week's since my last herpes talk and, I will not let this hold me back or make me feel inferior. So, don't let it hold you back. I understand that talk can be so hard, but this support group is truly amazing! When, I am ready to have that talk with someone, I'll be leaning on this suport forum. I know this was a long post but I really wanted to share my thoughts with all. Chrissy :)>-