KPonyo23

Great advice my plan is to study up on the facts today and tell him tmrw I am still very nervous so I'm not so sure about the confidence thing but I'll give it a shot....

I have hsv2

I know I have to tell him soon...how do you usually start off a disclosure?

Thanks again <3

Thanks for your response @whitedaisies I think maybe I'm freaking myself out I always plan on telling him then change my mind when I see his face ...but I think your right I need to leap and just say it ...

Hi everybody I'm new to this cite and I really need some advice...I've had herpes for 5years but I haven't told anybody yet and I haven't been dating or anything either. I'm 20 years old now and There is a guy that I started talking to about 3 or 4months ago and I wanted to tell him a while ago but I don't really know what to say. A few days ago i told him there was something I needed to tell him. I wrote this long letter out because I am terrified to tell him to his face and I know I'm probably gonna cry and I don't wanna freak him out too bad...but on the other hand idk if it is a good idea to give him the letter because he is the type that likes to talk about everything in person ...I'm also scared because I feel like maybe I waited too long to tell him...I haven't had sex with him or anything but I did stay the night at his house one night and he did ask me to be his girlfriend but I didn't give him an answer ....idk what to do he is not pressuring me to have sex or anything but i know he definitely wants to nd he brought up me being his girlfriend again but I don't wanna say yes (even though I want to be his girlfriend) because now I feel like I'm lying to him..... This is usually when I stop talking to a guy to avoid this situation either that or he gets annoyed nd stops talking to me ...this situation has been making me really sad lately.... I would just like to hear what everybody else has to say

Hi I'm new here too my name is Khadijah and I could really use some ppl to talk to And I would love to be somebody's support as well I've had herpes since I was 15 I am 20 now nd I havent told any family yet nd I just haven't been dating so I would love advise and tips I am actually talking to a guy now and I would really like to tell him but idk how ....if anyone is interested in being a chat Buddy or anything like that please feel free to msg me :)