Found out a few years back that I am H+ thought I was just getting a heat rash down below and paid it no mind...then one day saw a pic in a medical book and my jaw hit the floor, have been on a daily suppression medicine every day since. Thanks to this site I have also started using L-Lysine, vitamin C, as well as a daily multivitamin. So these days an OB is almost unheard of for me.
Now to the point of this whole post, I have been talking with a girl that I have known more than half my life and we have always been really mentally as well as physically connected to one another and now we are getting very serious about what is going to happen when we are together next...reason being is I live on one side of the U.S. and she lives in the middle. Long story short I am supposed to fly to where she is for a small vacation. So now I'm posting this because I know that I have to tell her about me having H, but the best way to do it seems to elude me.
One part of me says to just disclose over the phone, and then give her time and everything to think about it. The other part of me says to do it face to face and answer all her questions while being able to look at her and maybe be able to gauge her reactions better, then if she is good with it great and if not...well my family is from there so I guess they get to see me for a few extra days.
So I guess I am looking for a female perspective on this question, which way would you prefer to find out? Over the phone, or being able to look that person in the face when they are telling you?
Thank you in advance for any input.
My first post here is to say congrats, and I am happy it worked out well for you..jpg)
