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Well.idk if the other will even get that far. He's over bearing. Obviously not the virgin. And thanks for all your help. I just wish I could find someone more my age. I still am. I just can't get past a second date.

That's helps me very much so. And yes it does. My .main question was i'm talking to a guy who says he gets it only orally and is embarrassed because of it no one will date him. The virgin has hsv 1. He gets cold sores. I informed him go get it checked out. So being on valtrex doesn't help with hsv 1? Of the mouth.

Thank you guys. And your right he has no point of reference. He does still talk to me on occasion. Does it upset me anymore no not at all. He said he wishes he was so fearful of the herpes. I'm talking to a couple new guys right now. Both are positive with HSV of some sort. My question for you guys as I do not understand the other side to this. can I catch HSV 1? And if so how easily? The two guys have given me mixed answers they have hsv but havent been on meds since there outbreak. I asked which they had and the one guy wasnt sure if he has both or not. This scares me as I'd like to only have the one at the moment. Or at least understand it.

I'm currently 26. He's 25. Yes I'm Adhd. It's okay if you don't understand it. It's a lifestyle. The last guy I dated we had two dates. I refused to put out. I didn't disclose. I probably should have but after two dates I felt it wasn't the time. Was I right there? This guy was older wanted commitment but was kinky. I'm actually still seeing the guy from four months. We just got to third base. I have yet to disclose as were still not in a relationship and he's sees other girls on occasion. Therefore I see no reason to. And I've clearly stated no sex.

He's actually not a kid a year younger than me. And I thought since he was college educated he might have enough of a brain to understand. He also has cp mildly on his left side. Which I accepted him for. If he accepted the Adhd and depression and panic. The herpes is absolutely nothing. Living with Adhd with someone is like a huge thing.

I disclosed to a guy I had been talking to from a site since the summer time. We had been texting one night for what seemed like forever I felt comfortable I told him. This was December. It's now February. He's a virgin. Claims he wants to be friends. I finally asked him what going on. He seemed to be using excuses on meeting as friends or not. I gave him.percentages and such when I told him. Thought he respected me was okay with it. Fast forward to last night. We were texting he was complaining about woman. And his standards. I said what's wrong with me and don't I meet them. He stated you a nice girl. But I'm afraid of the herpes. I said okay so your rejecting me. He told me no not as friends..I said you clearly are I'm not good enough. I explained its a skin infection that there is a stigma over it you can't die. Getting into a car accident and dying is higher. Since then there is that wierd feeling. And things aren't the same. I'm feeling upset and disappointed again. I wish people wouldn't wait two-three months to make up there minds. I keep doing it like you all have suggested. But I still get upset and start crying. I'm an emotional person in general and take everything to heart. When will idiots in this world fall off and die?

Okay. So pretty much just brush it off. And thank you for the HSV2 info on a guy going down on me. Granted I havent had it happen. But I wantes to know. I haven't had any attention to that area since the guy I got it from. One other question BTW you two ladies are awesome and full of advice. I read somewhere you can't go tanning and have to be careful in the sun is that correct?

A quick question. I have had only one outbreak that I know of. I am unaware what an outbreak for me looks like. I had one internally not externally. Which made it painful to pee or anything really. So other than that I havent. I had tingling after I finished the treatment and went on to the 500mg a day. So I was put on 1gram of valtrex a day instead of the 500mg. I have yet to have an outbreak since then. Is it because im on a gram?

@Julie reading your success story gives me great hope that I too will have success with the right guy. Reading your story was like a fairy tale. I hope it all goes well for you. I am screening the guys I am talking to. My problem I guess I like to have physical attraction as well. As a connection. Does the fourth date really mean something? I have yet to disclose to the guy I've been seeing a month but I have suspicions its not going to work out. So instead since the guy I am seeing has not pushed anything. I have gone down on him a couple times voluntarily I might add. I will just see how things go.

I am so glad for you that you are having such success. Coming from a female I think your very lucky. I myself have not had very much success with disclosing. Good luck to you.

Awesome. Thanks for the good luck. I don't know about awesome sex in 2016 but I hope so. I'm taking all of the advice and reading your story gives me hope that I will have better luck in 2016.

I was not sure on oral herpes. Do I have to use a dental dam for a guy to go down on me? And is there a way to answer a guy when he hasnt met me yet if im 100% clean? Other than avoiding the question I have no idea. If the guy actually gets to know me i think it would be different. Can I lie and say no? I don't want to disclose to the whole world. But I understand a guys or person wanting to know.

Ouch both types must be even worse am I correct? Does that mean you have to give immediate disclosure? I have never heard of a mushroom based booster? I have used ziacam in the past. I just hate that its so expensive. I do nasal washes as well.

Okay thank you. I was just wondering. When I get sick its hard. I can't take a lot of vitamin c. It messes with my meds. And I have a red dye allergy. Along with I'm already on allergy pills and nasal spray. I can't take sudaped either.

Thank you guys. I'm just seeing the email now. That there were comments left. And your right on the friends that I have and not had a problem. I'm not willing to put that I have it in my dating profile. I've seen wayy to many people on there that I went to high school with that I do not needing the whole world knowing. Writing dating profiles are not the easiest thing for me. And I am working on myself. Does having the virus make us more susceptible to getting sick. Such as the common cold and what have you?