Hi all, I have to say I'm very afraid writing this and about my life.
I got herpes from a man I fell in love with. I thought I could trust him, but really he was just using me for fun. I was gutted. I now have to see him every week and all I do is cry.
Anyway, the reason I am here. To be honest I get it, herpes is a little virus it really does not effect my life. I only know I have it because I'm super conscious about my body. I think if I wasn't me I would never have noticed the one tiny pimple. So ok it really doesn't affect my life. However, it's the stigma that kills me. I met a guy recently that I fell for straight away and I know he really liked me. So I had to tell him, I was brave and got it out without crying and like the small issue it is to me. Anyway, I'm heartbroken, he couldn't take the risk. I see a lot of people saying it's a wingman or if they really cared it wouldn't matter. But I'm struggling with that. This guy would probably have supported me through anything he's amazing. But an sti and the stigma no and I don't blame him. I would probably not have taken the risk either. I don't this he was not the right guy. I think we were perfect, but this has ruined it. If you don't have it, you can't begin to understand it's not a big deal.
My life is never going to be the same again in terms of finding someone. And it's so hard these days anyway. I feel a little suicidal today.