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Please dont assume anything. I dont understand if is really rare that you can Pass the H2 to to mouth, Then Would that mean that if you have a Blowjob and you have Genital Herpes, there might be a chance that you dont pass it?

I got my lab results H1 Negative ( after unprotected sex started October 9 and Ended in October 31). 6 weeks of last encounter, 9 weeks of first encounter. The test Is a Igg test. How much percent accurate is after 9 weeks first enconuter and 6 weeks of last enconter? Also If you have a oral herpes and have cold sores in your mouth can sometimes be cause by herpes 2, even in a small percentage?

jajajajjaaj thanks for that feedback. The possibility of maybe having H, has make think about a lot stuff about my sexuality and how to came with the chance of open realtionships, with boundries of course, lots and lots of boundries. Well Ill refrase, its more easy to have H, if you leave in some parts of the east coast or west coast. There would be no Ellen Dawson in Fayetville Arkansas, believe me!!!

If I have H, I would date people with H. Otherwise It would be nerveracking!!!!

Well.... Lets say I broke out with my girlfriend...Hope to good not. I go back to Colombia. Theres and ( h) opportunity website? Theres literature on how to disclosed, how to date? Theres H communities like in the States? No. Its a fact. In the U.S, there is more a support system than Colombia!!!! Plus I come from a smal town in Bogota where everybody knows each other. Here in the states I live in south california, theres plenty of places to go, plenty of people to see, more people with H, more chances to have dates. If ( lets hope not) broke out with my girlfriend i would start date people with my same h condition, so we can have sex without condoms. I dont like them.

of course not, right? I lose her and turns out I dont have herpes.

I am going to Sleep/ Thank you, writing about this had put my fear out and I feel not alone. However, you need to understand that tell the absolute truth would be awfull, especially on Christmas. If, if I choose to tel her I cheated I am going to say, I was drunk ( colombians drink a lot) and had a one night stand and never used protection. I was so guity the other day that I contact her, because I didnt remember anything. She told me she was on the pill and that she had herpes. Since I deal with my generalised anxiety disorder I would read this to her the first day me see each other. That she might forgive. But if I tell her, you know, we have serious sexual issues. You are so sweet, so nurture and so childlike sometimes, that our love is a puppy, a little bit oedipues love, and theres a lot of thinks that we need to improve. Thats why I hook up with a girl who I had better sexual quimestry and thats all, beause as a Human being is a piece of shit, and have an affair with her with two weeks, having sex with her, knowing that she was having herpes. Would you suggest than and maybe not lose her?

U.S has tons of people. Southamerica countries dont. So its more difficul to have sex if you have herpes outside de U.S/ because if the stigma in the us is bigger, imagine in Southamerican countries or the rest of the world, were its really hard to be out of the closet, for lack of a better word about the h thing/

Ok. If you were in my shoes, in detail, what would you say? If I lose her and after 3 months it turns out to be I dont have anything, what I am going to do? We need to educate more about the H issue. I remember when she told me she had herpes, I say I dont have a condom, lets not do it. And she told me I am not Breaking out. I though that was good enough. I resent her so much, I dont wanna even see her. I still dont understand how can her boyfriend had unprotected sex from time to time. Her mom told me: " If you havent have an outbreak yet, its more than possible than you dont have it" Its like two realities. On the web the danger of herpes and in real life, everyone has less paranoia.

interestin conversation

Part of me, acts like I had already herpes. Part of me doesnt!!!! Thank God for this Forum!!!!

Would you suggest that If I came Postive tomorrow with herpes 1 I tell her That it was a routine exam and that maybe it can be from past relationships and that there is a risk if we had sex with condoms? The problem there would be that if in 3 months it shows that I dont have anything and H2 and H1 negative, how can I tell her that the results were wrong. I want to give it a shoot with this girl. Even thoug we dont have a great sex quimestry ( Handjobs are ok, blowjobs are ok) , she is a companion. She is somebody I can count on and she can count on me. The exitment of an affair, being that I am a late bloomer, and the stupid macho pride, posses me with the exitmente of an affair with an American Woman. Is not that I am a compulsive cheater. This is the first time I have an Affair.

When they do a test on blisters on your genitals, It that tells you if you have Herpes 1 or Herpes 2? My " friend" tells me that she was not tested for herpes 1, because she didnt hade symthoms in the mouth, she was tested for the genitals, assuming that the test in the genitals was for herpes 2.

Can I legally sue my friend for not let me Know is she has Herpes 1 or Herpes 2? You are assuming that I have Herpes. So far the test for Herpes 2 negative. Waiting for the result of Herpes 1. I don't want to ruin our vacation. I dont want to tell her that I cheated. If I have Herpes 1 can that we a good way to avoid sex with her. I can tell her that I could had that before. If Herpes 1 is negative, then I dont have any excuse. Long distance relationships are really hard. I dont know what to do.

I don't want to justify my actions. But is really hard to be in a long distance realtionship. I swear if she says to me that she cheated on me I would forgive her. I am in a way a little bit open to open relationships, with boundries of course. Also I dont want to know anything about sex right know. I dont like condoms that much and sometimes dont work them correctly. Maybe there can be a way to avoid sex all together. We saw each other last summer, so I dont know!!!

Yes I alwayes have mild scabs, but Know my guilt if blowing thinks out of proportion. The feeling of irritacion thoug to bad hygene is felt in my genitals and the feeling of the scab is the same.

She is not going to forgive me if I say I cheated and that maybe I have herpes. What if the Herpes 1 is not genital and my friend doesnt disclose? What difference that does makes? What is really shoking is that his boyfriend used to have a lot of sex with her and sometimes without protection , when she was not in an outbreak, she told me, he did his research and It was ok. Part of me wants to disclose everythin and part of me wants to have sex with her and condoms and hope for the best. Also if I tested positve for HIV1, maybe I can tell her, that you can have the virus for a long time, that way she takes her precaution. She can forgive herpes but not cheating and herpes. Plus she is so looking forward to see me in Colombia. I dont want to ruin our vacation. I was a late bloomer. And being that I was adicted to porn its hard sometimes for me to enjoy sex, especially with condoms. Thats why I choose to have sex with my friend, she was on the pill, she was more experienced than me and my girlfriend, but she was an American, so my macho pride was a mayor factor. Thank you for H Forum. I feel not alone in these. But there is too much complications, H1, H2, false sympthoms a trip to colombia, the resentment of my friend who fail miserably, miserable to give me the emotional support that I need it. I wanted to be her friend, but know I feel so betrayed. I wanted to end things in a good note, but know its almoest imposible. I pray to God and my mom that I dont Have herpes. I make a promise If i dont have it. Lets wait for the best.

yes I have mild scabs, I hope they are not blisters.

I love my girlfriend but the sex whas problematic to me, do to my lack of experience. I have bad hygene and I have scalds ( dirty but true) . I found a scald pimple Am I breaking out? I am goint to Colombia and saturday and If i avoid se with her she is going to get suspicious. The girl that had the herpes, told me before we had sex about her condition. I say lets not do that, but she said to me that she was no breaking out so it was ok. I was so horny that I believe her. What is really frustrating is that the girl that gave it to me, wants to be my friends and In a way we care about each other. She is really inmature and not willing to disclose If she has H1 or H2. If i have H1, maybe is not genital herpes, but the only way to know at this point if my friend disclose her condition. I dont want to lose my girlfriend. Its been 3 year since I was not in Colombia. MAybe just tell her that I have H1 if the result came positive and tell her that I didnt cheat. But IF later I have H2, she is going to get suspicious. 6 weeks testing how much percent accurate?

I forget to say I am going on saturday to Colombia and my girlfrind is exstatic about that. I dont want to lose her. Our sexual quimestry can be work out, but I dont want to lose her. I wanna marry her. Please understand I am 38 years old. Never cheated and it was an adventure to me to have an affair, but I dont know what to do.Too many questions.Help me out. I am alone in the states!!!

A friend with benefits that I have told me that if she doesnt have symptoms she can not pass me Genital Herpes. Her ex-boyfriend use to have sex with her without protection, knowing that the chance of passing of to him was remote when she was asynthomatic. I got freak out and started to have a itchy feeling in my penis. Went to the doctor, and he say, I didnt have herpes.It was just psicosomatic. I dont like condoms ( big mistake) she was on the pill and I didnt know shit about herpes. After 6 weeks of the last encounter ( last encounter was on Hallowen, october 31) I tested this friday for herpes 2. I tested negative. YUPPIE!!!! Turns out you have to wait 12 weeks to have an acurate blood test. So please tell me, how much percent accurate is after 6 weeks of last expousure? Then it occur to me, maybe I have herpes 1. But if I have herpes 1, maybe I have it when I was a kid. I ask my friend with benefits to please disclouse her papers and tell me if she has herpes 1 or herpes 2. Since she is really inmature, she doesnt know. And aparently she was tested with culture volt and she thinks than since she was tested in the blisters on her vagina she has herpes 2. But not single proof of that. Tomorrow Ill find ouf my tests for herpes 1. I try to be friends with my friend with benefits and say goodby to the benefits in a good way. I ask her to please to please give me more info about her condition. She doesnt wants to give the specifics. I dont know how tu push her. Because If i tested positive for herpes 1, maybe is not genital herpes if I know for sure that she doesnt have herpes 1. I only have sex with 2 wowan in my life. The hardest think is since my oficial girlfriend is in Colombia, I dont know if I should disclouse to her my situation. I know cheating was bad. But we have been separate for more than 2 years and being alone in the states is difficult. I dont know what to do. Waiting till february to know if I have herpes 2 is too much and knowing that maybe I have herpes one and not now if its beause of my friend kills. What If I dont have anything? Is it worth it to disclose to my girlfriend knowing that maybe I have nothing? If I have sex with condoms would that protect her? I come from a family in Colombia where cheating is very common, so the guiltfactor when you cheat is not that big. I know its bad, but I dont have sexual quemistry with my girlfriend and this is the first time I have an affair. On top of that, I have this pimple in the back of my testicles, I know is because of scalds and bad hygine. It doesnt itch or burns it is just there. Maybe I am breaking out. I am a mess. If this is hard to understand ask me questions. So i can claryfy. Thanks.