I have seen therapists. I have been in and out of counselling since I was diagnosed. I have been on every antidepressant. there are other issues that draw me to these men. I was sexually abused as child by a cousin and grandpa. My biological dad walked out and never looked back when I was 10. I was beat up and thrown down stairs by a partner while I was pregnant. Wasn't first time he was abusive but was first at tgat degree so I had abortion. So yes many underlying issues. Many factors in not feeling worthy. my ex husband drove it in that I would never find anyone because of having hsv. after 16 years I began to believe it. Now multiple times a day I chant to myself, "I am worthy, I am beautiful, I will be okay, I will find happiness. I will find someone who loves me. I AM okay" I hope that by doing this multiple times a day I will eventually believe it.