Sleeplessinsocal

I did already

Feel free to contact me I'm 42 and in California

Kayamil I feel your pain. I think what scared16 posted is wonderful. It spoke to my heart as well. The guy I finally disclosed to no longer is speaking to me and it hurts. But as scared16 said he was here for a season and I will take away the good and leave the negative at the curb.

Anyone on this thread if you can share how long do men process all this. I was with someone and didn't disclose. I finally disclosed last t Monday six weeks after three sexual encounters. We spoke briefly last Friday. He told me he had gotten tested. After a conversation on Friday sent me a text asking if he was only interested in a friendship. I haven't heard back from him cents. I sent him a text this morning asking for him to play sure his results with him this week. Still no response. Initially last week he did tell me space to process on this. But after we spoke on Friday I thought he had finished processing. At this point after a week of crying, I feel I need some sort of closure.

I disclosed after the act. While having the conversation he seemed understanding. The next day I get a text saying that he was restless and did not sleep. He told me he needed time to think about what I had disclosed. It was a painful week of crying my eyes out because of shame and the feeling rejected. Last Friday he asked if you could talk to me. We spoke briefly and he told me he wasn't angry at me. He also mentioned he had gotten tested. Should I have apologize for not disclosing before hand? That's what I'm struggling with right now. After our conversation last Friday I sent him a text asking if all he was interested in was a friendship. I haven't heard back from him. I sent him a text this morning asking for him to please share with me what his test results are once he obtains them. My second question is to all who may be reading this and like to please help me is the following; what are the chances of him getting it we had sex three times. The other thing I thought of is he is an older man he's 57 and he has never been tested for herpes. he also lived in the UK for four years. With leads me to believe that the possibility of having it is high. How would we know if he had it before I slept with him. Anyone out there who can give me some insight would be greatly appreciated

Hello all I am also looking for an H buddy female in her 40s. In Riverside County CA