Blowjob only relationship

[Flower123]

I have hsv2 and not hsv1. Would any man be ok with a blowjob only relationship, or would no penetration be a dealbreaker? That way there would be no risk to him.

[mr_hopp]

No true romantic relationship would subsist on blowjobs alone, friend. 😉 And I don’t think you would be okay with such a relationship either. You deserve more, don’t you? The fear of rejection is mostly seated in a fear of not being enough, and having herpes might seem to prove that even more so ... but what if it’s just the opposite? What if having herpes makes you reach even deeper than you have before to discover your inherent worthiness? Once that happens, you’ll stop pre-rejecting yourself in disclosure conversations and find men who are more than happy to take the risk of a skin condition to be with a vulnerable, open-hearted, available woman.