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Question re Intimacy

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Hi everyone. Hopefully this is not too much info but I have some questions. I was recently diagnosed with hsv2 in August after initially contracting it from a partner that didn't know he had it. Last night I had a very intense make out session with someone I'm interested in. There was no sex, of any kind, and I did not allow him to touch me beyond lightly in the upper pelvic area and thighs. Then I moved his hands away. It led to sleeping naked next to each other and a lot of touching above the waist, but nothing beyond that.


About a week ago I had mild prodrome but doubled up on the antivirals. Felt absolutely fine for the past few days. Not feeling great today though. But likely due to drinking heavily (bad, I know). Im freaking out a bit today. I hope to see him again and will be avoiding situations that end without clothing until appropriate (meaning I disclose). Was this risky? I feel shitty asking this now. And know that had I not been drinking I wouldn't have allowed it to get that far. Ugh. Because sex was so easy to navigate before this .....

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