A ( late) herpeversary (is that the spelling?)

[seeker]

Holla mi compadres. Many of you don't know me, I use to be on this site frequently but needed to cutback. I found myself here today and decided it might be good to give an update. Esp for those of you who are new and somewhat freaked at the moment. Well guess what? this little virus will become less than an issue in your life in the near future. I know because I was diagnosed Sept of 2014. Here it is 1 1/4 years later and herpes is really only a blip on my radar. only when an ob occurs is it an "issue" and usually a minor one at that. Now I'm not saying this year plus was wine and roses ( more like beer and chicken wings) but it really wasn't all that different from most years in my 50 on this earth. I have had involvements ( so far only in the H community { not knocking being with an H pos person by any means, H ladies tend to be rather, well RWAR!!!}) The only Ob I had that was really awful was also during one of the worst kidney stone episodes of my life ( I have my baby in a sandwich bag, its 1/4 of an inch. remember I am a guy, we aren't designed to have things come out of us like that, no dilatation on my part). So, take heart, it will get better, you will feel better. I personally have met some really great people in my local support group, we talk, we joke, we drink beer, we act stupid, we flirt. you know normal people stuff because, WE ARE NORMAL PEOPLE!!! and by the way, so are you!

[Bebe]

I remember seeing your name! This week is is herpeversary! 2 years. Might be why I'm hysterical. Might be pms. Who knows. Lord. Lol Anyway, you guys make me feel normal. Like someone gets it! Hugs to you all <3

[WCSDancer2010]

Great to see you again @seeker ....somehow I missed this with all the craziness of dealing with my father....

 

Thanks for coming on and checking in.... it's good to hear from you guys you know! Though we have a couple "regular" guys on here now...

 

Don't be such a stranger!!! Miss you my friend! (((HUGS)))

[seeker]

Hey WCSDancer2010, I still lurk on occasion. and Thanks Bebe.