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Gave bf oral with possible cold sore

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Hello everyone. I was diagnosed about four years ago. Have had multiple relationships since. I currently started dating a new guy I really like. I told him on our third date about having herpes. He's fine with it and we've been having sex. I'm on antivirals. No condom use. I felt a cold sore popping up on my mouth and started taking extra meds. It never blistered or anything it just was a red spot. On the sixth day after that I gave him a blow job after inspecting the cold sore. Never had any leaking or anything. I woke up today and the red spot is tender and more red and I'm scared I might have passed it on to him. What do you guys think the chances are of this? I've never had a scare like this about passing it on to someone.

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Just an update. This is definitely a cold sore. Throughout the day it has developed a tiny scab. I'm just a total wreck over this situation. I didn't think I had anything to worry about since it never blistered. Who has prodome for a week straight?! I never do. Does anyone have any stastics to ease my mind? Should I tell him? He's a great guy and I hate that I might have put him in a dangerous positition.

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