Did I pass herpes to my ex?

[Max_G]

So visited my hometown past weekend. I went to a party and had some drinks which made me a bit tipsy. I kinda hooked up with an ex. And only for a few seconds he was in me. I pulled back and told him no. We couldn't. I don't believe I had any symptoms. So I really hope I didn't pass it to him. I feel horrible. I'm soooo stupid. I think I'm in denial. Today I feel a bit weird there. Not sure if its bc I'm traveling and I may get my period.

[mr_hopp]

If it really was only in for a small time, you probably didn't pass herpes to him ... When no herpes outbreak is happening, there's only a 4% chance of passing it from female to male. But on the same token, you don't know what he had, either. Being safe goes both ways. We aren't the only contagious ones out there. ;)

[Max_G]

Thanks Adrial. It was very dumb of me. Again thank you for everything u do. Ur insight along with everyone else.