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  1. Hi guys. Three days ago, I have rougher than normal sex with my new guy. Toys were involved, things got pretty wild. Fast forward two days, and I’m pretty sure I’m expericing my very first OB... which makes me wonder, if he indeed has hsv2? Is it a coincidence that this would happen two days later? Or can the sex just trigger it? I’m worried about him. Thank you.
  2. @100918 this is my exact situation. Index value and all. I’ve had laser hair removal x6 times... drink what I want, eat what I want. And don’t even get me started on stress. Anxiety is my middle name! Never had a symptom, not once. I’d be curious to see what your WB would be. I’m thinking I want to do one as well... thanks for sharing.
  3. At what number igg result can we say we definitely have hsv without any symptoms/outbreaks... ever? Scared to retest although this anxiety is unbearable Thanks.
  4. @Melissa I’m so sorry for your pain. Thank you for sharing.
  5. Hi there. I’ve asked about initial, primary outbreaks, but what about your every day recurring outbreaks? For someone that supposedly has a positive hsv2 blood test, I’ve never had a symptom that I’m aware of. But every time something feels “off” I automatically assume hsv2. I know everyone is different, but I’m just curious as I’m trying to figure this out. Thank you.
  6. @Tk2019 yeah every time I’ve asked to be tested, they tell me it’s not advisable because I have no symptoms. Makes no sense. He’s not my boyfriend... a new guy I’ve been seeing. We slept together once, unprotected, and two days later he woke up very sick. This is why I started to worry again. I haven’t thought about it in years until this happened to him. He hasn’t mentioned anything about symptoms downstairs... so idk.
  7. @Anonymous88 omg. That sounds absolutely horrifying. I am so sorry you experienced so much pain my heat goes out to you. Thank you for sharing. It’s just so mind blowing how everyone can experience such different symptoms... makes it so challenging to pin point what exactly is going on. Hope suppressive therapy has been working well for you!!
  8. @janeen I’m so sorry to hear that. Thank you for sharing. No, I don’t think so? I’m trying to figure out if I ever have. Long story short, I’ve had inconclusive blood test results in the past and per my doctors advice, to not retest if there are no symptoms present. Fast forward, I met someone and slept with him a few weeks ago. He woke up so sick two days later with what the doctors told him was strep throat. He hasn’t mentioned any genital symptoms or anything in regards to hsv. Now I’m questioning my own status and feel like I should retest because I can’t help but worry about him. I’m trying to think back and pin point if I’ve ever experienced an outbreak but I truly don’t believe I have. It’s just mind blowing to me that one can carry this disease but never show a symptom. I have a hard time believing I have something if I’ve never had a symptom I’ve had cold sores my entire life. So I know what those feel like..
  9. @missyg002 please tell me how you got to this point! I wish I could think like you. Thank you for your words. It’s more than appreciated.
  10. Hi there! I would love a buddy, gender doesn’t matter to me I’m a 26 year old female who lives in Chicago. I’m extremely anxious and sad, so any support is appreciated. Thank you all.
  11. Mild? Rash? Flu like symptoms? If so, like what? Sore throat, fever, sinus issues? Worst pain you’ve ever felt? Itchy? Burning? Sores? No sores? Discharge? How long after exposure? I’ve read so many different experiences. I’m just curious. Still trying to figure out if I’ve ever had one without knowing... or if the guy I recently slept with indeed had one two days after I slept with him any insight would be appreciated. Thank you!
  12. @Tk2019 thank you for that. It’s definitely hard for me to understand, but I think I need to all to my doctor again. Ouch I can’t even imagine how that would feel... I’m so sorry. Ignorance is truly bliss, especially when it comes to this. That’s what I’m afraid of. Idk what to do. Idk if I should tell him to get tested or leave it alone. No answer feels right and this anxiety is killing me.
  13. @tk2019 no I didn’t ask. I didn’t know that was even a thing... I’m sure if I search hard enough on here, I’d be able to find the answer to this question. But what would be considered a positive index value? When you say head cold, was that all he was experiencing? No symptoms downstairs? I just don’t know if an outbreak could just be flu like symptoms with no physical symptoms of an outbreak? Ugh. Same with my experience clearly. I’m scared to tell him. He doesn’t know. And I don’t even know about me either. So I don’t want to shoot myself in the foot if it’s nothing. Idk. Thanks for your help.
  14. @100918 wow. I can’t even imagine how shocked you were... I didn’t know they didn’t test for it routinely either!! It’s so strange to me for situations exactly like yours. Wow. I wish my pity party only lasted that long. It’s taken over my life at the moment and I don’t even really know if I have it I’m 26 and feel like my life is over... as dramatic as that sounds. I’m scared for the future and really am having a hard time. Thank you for your positivity. It truly is life saving. I’m sure a lot of people on this forum feel like I do and having people like you to talk to really makes this easier.
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