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You are absolutely right Adrial. I just have to keep reminding myself those things. I am trying to calculate the expenses but I just recently left my job. I really do want to go to the seminar. Thank you for your response it was very uplifting.

Ah thank you for your response Adrial. I guess I don't have any concrete proof.. But I read and hear about all these heartbreaking rejection stories and you would think with all the knowledge we have about medicine today that the stigma of herpes would've progressed. I guess I am feeling down because of my past relationship and I'm scared that when I'm ready for a relationship again, I will be rejected just because of the HSV and I'll feel like a pariah.

Thank you so much for your response. It's comforting to know I'm not alone. I'm trying not to think about relationships too much now but it's the biggest factor about H that keeps me down.

Hi everyone. I am a 21 year old female, just recently diagnosed with HSV2 a little over a week ago. I just recently ended a dysfunctional relationship with whom I believe was the carrier. (I found out was sleeping with 2+ girls while he was with me). Though I am mostly optimistic about this change in my life, I still have my off moments. I have decided I won't let HSV be a burden on my life. I have decided to take steps towards being a healthier and happier person, as well as leaving bad habits behind. I've decided to eat healthier and have a consistent exercise routine (I hear that healthy habits can reduce outbreaks), more yoga, less alcohol, concentrating more on studies and spending more time with my family. But there is one aspect of my life I feel is uncontrollable. My love life. I am beyond scared that I will never find someone who will love me and accept me because of my HSV. I have had nothing but great experiences with relationships and I am so scared of the rejection. Of the shame of knowing that if it weren't for my HSV I would have more opportunities in relationships. Most of all I hurt for my parents. Family is so important and close to them. They always talk about how excited they are for my future wedding or to have grandchildren running around the house. I am scared that I won't ever find someone and they will always wonder what went wrong. I feel so alone. And although I will strive to be the best person I can be in all aspects of life career, education, family, friends, health..I feel that I will not achieve happiness in love. Any advice, stories, comments or even some tough love would be incredibly helpful. I am inspired every time I read other members' posts. Thanks for your time. ALSO, if anyone knows of any in-person H support groups in the NY/NJ area I would be very interested in this.

Hi everyone. I was diagnosed a little over a week ago with HSV2. I am a 21 year old female looking for an h buddy in any area of the country. An h buddy in the Tri-State area would be a great plus though. I am looking for someone to confide in and to give as well as receive moral support. I am looking for a buddy whom I can trust and feel comfortable with. I am open minded and a great listener. I have no gender preference; male or female.