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I was tired of being so scared

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I am terrified of being judge. I am tired of attractive men approaching me and feeling like they don't deserve it. Like I'm carrying a lethal weapon. So today I told a guy im dating. I haven't known him for long so I told myself if he leaves it won't hurt as bad. So far he has asked a few questions but said he still wanted to talk to me.  He was shocked I have it but I explained everything and he told me he knew someone with it. I don't have any high hopes but I'm just happy to rip this bandage off!!! It wasn't for him it was for me . It wasn't bad as I thought. I did it because you guys gave me the confidence to stop bring do damn scared all the time. Thank you guys!!! Virtual Big Hug!! 

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Congratulations on following your courage and doing it. It’s a special feeling to act on your integrity and find that what you thought was a big scary monster isn’t so scary after all. This is what makes us stigma bulletproof. Good job! 🙂 

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