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How to ask friends not to talk about casual sex so much?

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As always, so grateful for this community <3

I'm turning 30 and going to New Orleans with friends to celebrate. My friends really like talking about casual sex and, in genearl, sex like alllll the time.  It still makes me feel kinda bummed when I hear that topic of conversation and usually I just bare it, but given that it's my birthday and New Orleans is my favorite place, well I just don't want to have a bad association with this event, especially since NOLA is casual sex central and where I had a #metoo moment that possibly gave me H. (Unconfirmed)

How do I ask my friends not to talk about casual sex that much while we're there??!!  Is that a weird thing to ask someone?!

Thanks so much for your help, I love you.




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Hi, do you're friends know that you have H? Or not? I guess if they do it's pretty easy to ask as it's just about being polite. If they don't it's going to be a little harder! 


 I know what you mean though, it can be hard to listen to. 



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