Afraid to disclose

[_502virgo]

I’ve been talking to this guy for about three weeks now. He’s very sweet, we vibe easily and are very attracted to each other. The past few times we’ve hung out things have gotten intense and I feel like I have to tell him soon. But I just have this feeling he won’t look at me the same and be totally not okay with it . And I’ve been stressing over how I should disclosure  or even  if I should just stop talking to him all together. I think I’m going to give myself an ob because I’ve been stressing so much . And recently I’ve just been feeling depressed because this whole situation has just reminded me how hard it’s going to be to find someone to accept me . I dont know if venting or asking for advice but anything wil help

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[Amando]

Hi _502virgo

Trust me, just do it, (same to you Next step)
I know its hard but if your thinking about stop talking to the guy, you may as well take your chances of disclosing.

The worse thing that can happen is he rejects you, but we can all get rejected for other reasons too.
Yes it does hurt, it happened to me in May this year but I'm here & I'm stronger for it.

Once you have disclosed once it will get easier in future, that's if it doesn't go to plan.
But do it with a positive mind & you may be surprised, there are a lot of people that will accept you
& if they don't, hey they weren't good enough for you.

Good luck & be happy, big hugs!