[Hello!]

I wish my immune system was good ! I seem to get sick all the time. ((:

But I haven't smoked a cig in over a week. (: So hopefully that will help me start to a healthier life and immune system.

[Hello!]

Oh yeah she is awesome. (: I look up to her sooo much !!

 

I haven't really found any vitamins.. Though I do use Virgin Cold Pressed Coconut oil for everything. && I use them for my outbreaks also. Coconut oil has Antiviral properties in it which help keep the Herpes at bay. (: It also make them feel a lot better.

 

&& I also am on suppressive therapy for my boyfriend. I take aciclovyr twice a day..

 

[It hurts worse than the blisters]

I am glad you found us and that we found you also !

[Herpes-negative partners + supplements to protect them from getting herpes?]

>>; that is going to come out weird. My mom is H+ my dad is H-

[Herpes-negative partners + supplements to protect them from getting herpes?]

My boyfriend doesn't take anything.

 

&& my dad never took anything to amp his immune. :D

[Learning the truth..]

Yep. I think so also..

[Learning the truth..]

She is.. But you know me ? I am such a caring person that I will do anything to help her. I buy her daughter food, clothes, etc.. I even was cleaning her house because her kid doesn't even need to be in a house like that. Needless to say I was the one raising her child.

 

Sorry. UGH

[Learning the truth..]

Yeah I know. I have a bad habit of getting on the defensive. Even if I don't mean to get on the defensive.

 

I want to educate people and everyone that asks started asking me questions.. & yes I tell them the answers.. I even show then the handouts that we have. So they know ?

 

One person at a time. Sorry to say, but some of the people who are talking about me karma will hit them one way or the other.

It's not my fault it's not any ones fault. Yes I will approach it differently.

 

Even though I already came out about it and I am okay with it myself well... It still stings. It will always sting just a little bit.

[Online dating with herpes]

I don't know ? He said one girl was super christian.. I guess that is not what he expected.

[Learning the truth..]

Well first off I am sorry to say but she is a horrible mother. I have been there for her as moral support and to help her live a better life. Not do drugs in front of her daughter or bring different men home every single night.

 

Or you know ? I came out, and everyone that has asked me about it I say " Yeah I have herpes, so what ? Is it really any of your concern ? Or are you scared that I am contagious." Once again getting people out of my life. I am glad I have this, because I am losing a lot of people. A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO DON'T DESERVE TO BE THERE. Being young you think everyone is your friend..

 

Now I feel like the only friend I have is my Herpes.. because it's showing me peoples true colors.

[Possible herpes - Please help]

Well no one can know for sure, unless you go and get them swabbed. Or get your blood tested for the culture of Herpes.. HSV-1 or HSV-2...

 

i didn't get any symptons with mine, and all I had was a few bumps. Came back positive for HSV-2..

 

Don't be nervous. (( Even though I know that it is nerve wracking.)) But know that more people than you think have it.

[Online dating with herpes]

Oh yeahh. I know he is over that, because it was like 4 years ago when that happened.. He said that every girl he got with ended up being weird.

[Lonely]

Yeah.. A lot of my friends haven't taken STD's seriously, and I have been teaching them that you should care about yourself and your body, but also know that if you do catch something like this its not your fault.

[Learning the truth..]

Came out to my "best friend" that I have had since I was in the 6th grade about my herpes. Apparently she has been spreading that I am a dirty whore and that I caught an STD because I sleep with too many people.. She has been telling people about my business and about my life. Obviously I have came out to a lot of people, and I don't really care who knows, but it is not your business to tell people.. You know ?

 

Like really ?

 

[Lonely]

Yes.. We can't help with your PTSD but we can help with you coping with your herpes. :D

 

((: I am glad we are able to help. <3

[Online dating with herpes]

Dancer? Can you answer me what a serial dater was ? xD

 

My boyfriend told me about how at one point he was going out with a girl every night.. Is that a serial dater ?

[Hello!]

Hey Jennifer I am Megan ! Or most people on here know me as victoria ! (:

It's nice to meet you. I have heard about honey helping, I just thought it would be extremely weird to put it down there on my genital region.

 

I was diagnosed with HSV-2 not to long ago also, actually just a few weeks before my birthday. (:

 

Nice to meet you again !

[It hurts worse than the blisters]

Wow. What a ... Nevermind, I am not going to say it.. But how could someone be so cold so mean? I am sorry Herry.

 

I would also contact her boyfriend personally, no matter what the drama and impact might come from it. I will know that I am doing the right thing. I know that I am making sure that the person that she obviously didn't care about is going to be safe.. That he knows that she was running around on him. Or maybe there is something wrong with their relationship. Maybe she is not happy with him. Maybe she is not happy with herself, and wanted to see someone else hurt.

 

Herry from what I have seen on this forum. You are a good kind hearted individual. Someone who has obviously been through a lot though. Show a woman, a real woman who deserves it, what kind of person you can be.. && you will probably have the best woman you have ever asked for in your life. <3

[Possible herpes outbreak number 2 and I'm falling apart again]

Yeah ? I love honey. It really helps a lot.

[Changed his mind after a while :(]

Derek Jeter isn't even that good looking xD

[Disclosure regarding the possibility of herpes to partner]

Yes I think getting a blood test to make sure that you aren't a carrier or to know if you are a carrier would be the best option!

[Scrolling through my FB feed... && The remark someone made.]

Thank you. (:

 

I know that karma came and bit me in the arse, and now I have a wayyy different outlook than I used too.

[I have genital HSV-2. He has oral HSV-1 and genital HSV-2. Can he give me genital HSV-1?]

Well it doesn't necessarily mean stress, but there could be an underlying problem that could be stressing your body out.

[Scrolling through my FB feed... && The remark someone made.]

I know, and I feel good that I did. I stood up not just for myself, but for the other people that could possibly be reading this also that have an STD..

 

I mean like I always said.. I knew my mom had an STD and some of my friends had STD's but I had a fear of them. I wasn't the safest girl in the world & I was a bit promiscuous, but that doesn't mean I am gross, and that doesn't mean that I got it when I wasn't safe or when I was. I don't know how, but that doesn't DEFINE me. Or you for that matter, because out of ignorance we make these stupid remarks that could hurt a lot of people.. I see myself crying a little bit over here, because you know I may have been able to help some people, but the wound is still fresh, and the little things like this you know hurt.. Not because it makes me feel gross, but because she is so ignorant or maybe fearful to say something like this. I am crying a little bit, because people really feel that way.. && the stigma is soo horrible.

 

I don't care that she blocked me. I already made a statement that my new years resolution was to get rid of people that obviously don't deserve to be in my life..

I am glad that I know I am not dirty. I know I am a good person. I know that I have way big and better things that Herpes ahead of me.

 

[Scrolling through my FB feed... && The remark someone made.]

She blocked me after everything that I had to say to her. I wasn't rude. Like I said there are a lot of things that aren't in our control. We will never be in control no matter how bad we want to be.