victoriaxxx
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Hello Sers,
Welcome to the forum. I have only been around here for about 2 weeks and I found this place a very comforting and safe place to talk to people. (:
I was diagnosed about a month ago with HSV-2. I am only 20.. One thing I learned is that it doesn't matter about age or any of that. I know it's upsetting I had to do my week of crying. ( Some people get over it faster than others.) You could have possibly got it from oral sex, because HSV-1 is usually cold soars/fever blisters. Imagine your H as a friend. A companion. I am actually thankful that I have it, because there is nothing I can really do to get rid of it. I told my boyfriend about my H.. && I was able to find out that he was really here for me. Yes you will have to think about relationships a little differently, but not that much differently at all. You are just going to have to be safe about it. Now that you know about it you can take the steps possible to keep your potential partners safe.
&& The way you will look at this is based on yourself. I hope that eventually you can come to terms with your H, because it is easier than bottling it up and stressing over it all the time. ( Stress is usually a key to the outbreaks.)
I had the same problem. I only felt one or two little bumps and I decided to go get them checked out. I thought that it was razor burn or maybe a cyst.. But come to find out it is HSV-2.
Coming out to this is a big step in the healing process and much love to you!
We are all here in this process. (:
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I am glad we were able to help. (:
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(: I wanted to say welcome also.
They are both right. The chance of you transferring it to your daughter is slim to none. After I have done a lot of my research you are pretty much safe around your daughter. Like I was telling others my mom has it and never passed it on to me. I got it from sexual intercourse myself. ( I remember my mom was kind of blaming herself. She thought she gave it to me.) Whoooossaaaa and goosfraba.
I am sending good vibes to you love. (: You will be okay.
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The way you come about your threads it truly amazing.
"Geez, I really want herpes for Christmas." I thought that was the funniest because it was days before christmas when I found out that I had HSV-2 and I remember sitting here saying. " Oh jeez, what a wonderful christmas present.
I completely agree if they are able to go on then what stops me from becoming the forensic scientist that I always wanted to become? Nothing. Not this little H or Big H. Not the cold that I am enduring right now. The only thing stopping me from becoming something bigger and far better is myself. That little place in my head that won't stop ringing " OMG I have Herpes." Yes I do and that is just a trial that I have to go through. We all have to get past this moment, and not let this one be the last, because it could. We can not go through life with regrets.. Because we can not change our past we can only try to lead a better future.
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OMG. I am happy for you. (: I am glad that things went well.. :D
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@Okletsmoveon It is still possible to pass H on to your partner without an outbreak, but it is not as common as when you do have an outbreak. It passes on more when you have viral shedding.
You and your boyfriend both need to look up the facts. I am pretty sure Adrial can send you some fact sheets about H. You can get on suppressive treatments, use condoms and then the rate will go down. If you learn your body then you can also make it less likely to spread.
Like I said before My mother has genital herpes. My mom and dad have been married for 22 years now and she has never gave it to my father. She is not on any therapy and they never used condoms.. ( Weird that I know this, but when I found out that I have it my mom just told me what she could.) There are always ways around this you guys also need to have really good communication. Communication is the best key!. I just have to say I am very glad that you were able to come out with this. It is extremely hard I know that. Though I have never been in your position. I know that it is hard to get past. A feeling inside you that makes you feel dirty...
-hugs- Try to keep your heads up. With something like happened to you, I am sorry but you might need to see a Dr. Like a therapist to help you get past the trauma.. I hope that I can be here for you as well.
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@Klopz
I am truly glad that I am able to put a smile on your face. (: It is one of my biggest goals. I don't know why? but I hate seeing people upset or sad. I know how it is. Even though it only took me about a week to get over this. With the big help of my boyfriend. That is why I am glad that I am in this community and able to inspire people. As well as learn some things myself. I hope you do keep a smile on your face because you are beautiful inside and out! We all are.
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Well I guess since I am new to this I will stay on the suppressive therapy for him.. But if things end up not working out then I will take myself off of them so that I can build up immunity. Also maybe after a year I will talk to him about me getting off of them because I need to allow my immunities to build up anyways.
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My doctor told me to keep track of my OB to know if I need a higher dosage or whatnot.. I don't really agree with pills considering that I already have a low immune system as it is.
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Reading through this one. I remember when I told my boyfriend about my H. I thought that he was going to leave me. He kept telling me " don't warp it into your brain that I am not going to want to be with you." I kept asking him if he was sure if he wanted to be with me.
Finally I had to calm down. You know why? Because like Dancer and a lot of other people said If I am going to freak out then so is he. If I keep bothering him eventually he will want to leave me. I was thinking about it, and if he didn't run when I first told him then obviously he wants to work things out. He wants this. I just stopped talking to him about it mostly unless he has something that he learned about it, or I found out something about it also. I remember two days after I talked to my doctor about it and learned the statistics I told him. He said " That is all good news." We are still talking. I realized that if he didn't want to be with me or my H... Then he just wanted to get in my pants and that was it.. I learned that he thought I was a smart bright young woman. That he really wanted to get involved with... and if he ran then that was okay also, because it obviously wasn't a risk that he wanted to take.
This thread was heart warming to me. I hope that he comes around and talks to you. I hope that he does process this the correct way. && if you ever need someone I am here for you also. (:
-big hugs-
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I hope that it went well. (:
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So this makes me ask the question. I am on acyclovir. I am taking it every day twice a day. Should I not be doing this ?
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Pam. (: First off I just wanted to say thank you to you. You were one of the first people who reached out to me on here. I have only been on here for about a week now and I appreciate every comment and advice that you have to give. I look up to you. You are an inspiration to me, and make me feel like I am doing a good job at helping with the inspiration around here as well. (:
Thanks for your love and kindness.
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Yeah that is one thing I learned the hard way, You can not love someone else if you do not first love yourself.
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((: I loved reading this. I am glad that you were able to find someone awesome enough to know that you are awesome as well. (:
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I live in Washington so if anyone would like to have a buddy to work through this with I would love a friend!
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I just tried cold pressed all organic coconut oil last night and I already have some results. It doesn't hurt as bad and it looks like its starting to heal. (:
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;) The healing process is all about acceptance. A lot of times it is easier to heal when we have others who accept us.
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Thank you Adrial. I really appreciate that comment. I have learned a lot in my young days.
I learned the leading by example was better then trying to yell at someone how to live their lives. It's just living and learning. This is all a big experience and experiment.
I just wanted to talk about a story one time. I remember being in the 8th grade, which was not to long ago.. There was this girl who absolutely did not like me. I found her in the bathroom upset and all alone. I didn't take the time to talk to her. I just came up to her and hugged her. I comforted her the whole time. Finally she came out and told me what was wrong with her. I found out her her reason for all of her dislike towards other people. & in the end I helped her realize that she had more to live for. She actually became one of my good friends, and now she has 2 kids and a husband. To this day she thanks me, because "I saved her". When she was all alone.
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Okay cool. I tried some of the mixture and today I already see a difference! They look like they are starting to scab up and heal. Honestly I am not even really in that much pain right now.
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I am glad I am here to help and to learn. I am glad I found this community and I want to give back as much as possible. :D
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Not just to this but for the whole world! We all need to inspire someone in some way, because if we can make at least one person look up and feel better about the world. We can all feel better about ourselves. (:
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I want to inspire people. Whether you have herpes or you don't. I want to inspire people to never give up. To make sure that you never look down. I want to help you know that you are worth it. I want to inspire people. H has inspired me to never look back. To not give up. To always look at the good in people and in other things. H has helped me find true happiness inside myself.
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