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Ok thats what i figured, i will! Because he will get tested in a month and it might come back negative and he think hes home free! I dont want him out there spreading H to other women! Thank you so much for all this input and advice on everything!!

I hope thats the case, i cant imagine ive had this for years and years. Especially since my first outbreak was so incredibly bad!! He is getting tested he said in another month, to me that seems a little soon. Do yall know if thats standard? Or ahouldnt it be like 4 or 6 months or something?

Thats exactly what i told him. I said "go to the doctor and have them swab it like they did for me" but he says they are so small the doctor wouldnt get anything out of it , ok whatever!! He must think im stupid. I think he is in denial that i could be H. I did findout lastnight that the woman he was hooking up with had been with another guy too, and turns out it was just 2 weeks before the initial "ingrown hair" came up! We are tracking it down, slowly! Im a woman on a mission!!

The other guy showed me his results and they really were negative, i was shocked. I was with my boyfriend when he picked his up, so i know his are negative too. My boyfriend and I went through a rough time so i was with the other guy a handful of times. He was having sex with another girl st the time. I honestly dont think he even knew he had it (if he does and it just isnt showing!) The only thing i can think of is that my body is just very sensitive to so many things, so maybe thats why im the only one showing symptoms! My boyfriend and i had sex 5 days before i had my first symptom. Since then we havnt done anything. The other guy had what we thought was an ingrown hair and the next day is when i had issues. He has since bad about 6 little sporadic blisters/bumps come up, but he hasnt had any other issues, and they dont hurt him. I know that seems like a confusing situation, and i was wrong for being with this guy in the first place. See its my punishment!!! :'(

My first outbreak was the DEVIL! The peeing in the shower thing really helps alot, but i also used Dermoplast spray for those times also. I slept with no undies or shorts on, and slept on a towel because of discharge. I also did the hair dryer thing to dry off after showers and things like that because the towel would be so painful to even dab iit! If you get another outbreak try that stuff because it certainly helped me!!

Thank you all for being so great and supportive and sharing your experiences and feelings with me! I hate feeling this way and its so true i do feel like im being punished and dont deserve to be happy but i need to fight through this. I guess the hardest part for me is realizing that i have no idea where this has come from. One guy ive been with most recently (other than my bf) got tested and he is negative! Im so confused. I may never know but i wish i did. My first OB was sooooo bad that my dr told me she believes i was exposed to it recently. But the 2 men ive been with more recently than anyone else dont have it! So confusing. Im so lost with this!!!

If im wrong about this im sorry, but im almost positive that it doesnt matter. I have a friend in active duty and he has it, he is being deployed overseas again in October so there is no issue with it for him.

I would love a buddy if anyone would be interested in chatting with me. Im a 25 year old, im female but i dont really have a preference of male/female buddy. I am in Knoxville, Tn. I was diagnosed with hsv2 on June 23rd by a swab test because i was showing symtoms. This is my first outbreak. I am a very understanding and compassionate person and i would love the same qualitiea in a buddy!! :) hope to hear from someone soon! You can contact me through here or email love__pink890@yahoo.com! Just let me know youre a fellow buddy! :)

Its going to sound odd but i am seriously scared of my next outbreak. Ive read that it can come on soon after the first, and if it is even close to how the first one was then i dont know how i will be able to even function at work normally! :'( i keep thinking to myself "i dont deserve this!!". Many years ago i would sleep around alot, so maybe i do deserve this. I have friends right now that are having sex with so many different people, so i think to myself "why not them?!". Then i feel like this is punishment for other things ive done in the past. Im 25 years old and i feel like my life is ruined forever. Im hopeing so much that with time this isnt going to matter to me anymore. I know there are so many worse things in life so i sound like a whiney little bitch!! I hope noone thinks that about me! This is just hard dealing with right now.

Today has been a bad day for me. Im feeling anxious, depressed, stressed. I cant get myself out of this funk. I was diagnosed hsv2 positive on june 23rd through a swab test because i was having issues down below. My first outbreak is just now clearing up (with valtrex) but it was the nightmare type of outbreak. Fever, chills, headache the whole list of symptoms i had. I have a boyfriend who ive been with for almost 7 years, he had the igg test done and is negative. I feel like with time he couldnt possibly want to stay with me. I feel so alone right now. I dont know how this happened to me. I know i shouldnt complain because ive done great the past couple weeks dealing with this. I guess today mentally isnt a good day. In the beginning i didnt want to live. I felt like i didnt deserve anything good in life anymore. I have myself thinking that things arent as positive as i make them. Herpes is the ONLY thing in my mind allday everyday. Im tired of feeling like this. Sorry for the whining, i just need to vent to anyone that will hear me.

Again "according to my doctor" (who is WONDERFUL by the way!) I can have a normal sex life with my boyfriend as long as im not having an "active" outbreak. Whenever you do get in a new relationship talk to your doctor about possibly doing surpressive therapy also. Before i was diagnosed ill admit, if i heard someone had herpes i would think "oh my gosh!!!! Gross!!" But i wasnt educated on it. Now that i have it i feel 100% different about it. We arent gross, we arent dirty people, we just happened to get stuck with an awful virus but it can be controlled well with medicine! When you get in a relationship educate them on hsv2, i have had to with my boyfriend and my best friend who knows also! If they truly care about you they will be understanding to it. :)

I know that sometimes herpes outbreaks start as little papercut like areas, atleast it did for me (but im a woman so it started at a different area for me). That is how my first outbreak began, as little papercut like areas. Id say its a 2nd outbreak, ive heard the 2nd one can come on quick after the 1st sometimes!

Im going through the exact same thing right now. I just found out im hsv2 positive about 3 weeks ago. I was completely miserable too. Cold chills, fever of 102, headache, body aches!!! I took a 10 day dose of valtrex twice a day and it helped tremendously!! My boyfriend got tested too with the IGG blood test and he is negative. I dont know when this happened to me and it took me til now to finally realize that it doesnt matter. I have it and now i have to deal with it. My gyn is probably going to put me on suppresive therapy since my boyfriend is negative. My outbreak was mostly in between my butt at the bottom of my vagina, but i know having them on your butt is normal too according to my doctor.You will make it through this. I cant believe i am dealing with it as well as i am!!