Sunshineandwhiskey

Thanks so much!

Fuck so I guess I'll have to say something. Complete bullshit

Thanks! Hippyherpy! That's what I figure! Also he's a bug boy and can research it if he wanted tooo!

So starterd dating a guy and before we had sex I told him I have hsv1. I told him it was t type two and most people by our age have hsv1. I didn't tell him I have it genitally. We had sex a few days later and now I'm feeling guilty that maybe I should give him more stats and info. He did have three days to research it so..do I have another discussion with him???

@luna1088. I got ghsv1 from oral sex with a boyfriend last October. I had a culture done. Then 4 months later I did have a blood test because they didn't type the culture so I didn't know if it was 1 or 2. I take valtrex when I'm in a relationship. Good luck with the BV. It sucks.

I feel your pain. I too keep getting BV. I also haveGSV1. I hate using the medicine the ob/gyn gives me. This is going to sound weird but I purchased boric acid capsules from Amazon after doing some research. It helps with yeast and the BV. You insert them inside you. Seems like it helps. I haven't done the full course of treatment but it gets my ph down there back in balance after a couple of days. Unfortunately after I have sex it comes back. I probably just need to do it for two weeks as it says.

Good luck tonight!

Have a great getaway weekend planned. I'm leaving Thursday and today I have an outbreak! I told the new guy I have herpes 1. He didn't seem to care. We had unprotected sex multiple times on two occasions. The last being Friday. Messed around on Sunday but no penetration. Then Sunday afternoon bingo! Going to the doctor tomorrow to have her check as I'm not sure. Also think I have BV infection. Not for the discussion with him as to what's going on.

Thanks ! You're right. I am making this way more complicated! Great advice as always!

It would be better if she took the antivirals. Did you tell her about how you felt about condoms and that it would put your mind at ease if she took the antiviral drugs?

Good luck!

Hang in there. Try taking vitamins and exercise. It's good everything else is negative. I hope you

Not yet lol

I think it is perfectly alright to ask her to get on suppressive therapy. Seems like you both are communicating well. Plus I'm sure she would want to protect you. I say in the meantime use condoms too until you get your results. Just my humble opinion. Good luck

Here I am again freaking out! I did disclosure to the new guy. I just said simply I have the virus that causes cold sores. He just replied that he's never had one. We didn't have sex that time because he didn't have a condom. 1). My heroes has never been typed. Awaiting results now as it's been four months. I'm assuming I have type one because the last guy I dated had cold sores and told me after my first outbreak. If my results come back type 2 do I need to disclose all over again? 2). After the simple disclosure he never asked any questions. Is it my responsibility to now fill him in? 3). We know many of the same people and I don't want everyone knowing my business and frankly I'm afraid I'll pass it to him! Also I plan on taking valtrex if we do go farther. And of course he's mentioned how much he hates condoms. Am I taking advantage of his naivety? Ugh. Why is this so complicated! I so appreciate everyone on this site. You are my lifeline.