I find it odd that if a person has HSV-2 (with no outbreaks), they are expected to disclose this information to future partners. Yet I've never heard of anyone disclose that they have HSV-1 (with no outbreaks), before kissing someone. Could it be that most people don't realize something like 99% of cold sores is herpes? Yet genital herpes comes with shame, depression and the sense that no one will ever love you again. And no one knows you have it unless you tell them, while everyone can see a cold sore and some people will know it's herpes.
Why should HSV-2 positive people care about disclosure if they are not having an outbreak, yes I know about asymptomatic shedding, when even the medical community views HSV as nothing more than a skin condition and many physicians don't add HSV to their STD screenings. To put things in perspective, the Flu virus kills people every year while HSV does not, yet HSV…specifically HSV-2 causes so much unwarranted emotional suffering.