Pollyanna1

I am sorry for posting this for 3 times. My internet was not so good so i couldnt understand if i posted or not

Hello guys, I havent been here for so long and dealing with anxiety. I am getting married this summer with my fiance who has not herpes. I am wondering that what if i could transmit the disease since we will live in the same house and could have sex anytime we want. we have been dating for almost 3 years now but long distance. We only see eachother 2 weeks in a row. Anyways is somebody who is married could inform me please? How will be the sex is, how is the marriage while one partner has herpes? Also is anybody transmit the virus and what was their partner rejection when they infected because of us? I am full of questions about my future? I have been using valtrex and should i keep using the rest of my life? We also used condoms but he doesnt want the condoms in our marriage. Aargh hate the idea of transmitting the virus even though he seems like he doesnt care :( its a really big burden and i can ruin my love's health :( Ps. Last week one day before gettng intimate with my fiance, I noticed itchness inside my labia but it fade away couple of hours later. And we had sex the other day and know i am wondering could have been prodromes and he transmitted from me. He has no syptoms thou :( (ı am on dalily valtrex and we used condoms)

Sorry for late reply-i was having mentall breakdown dute to herpes :( i forbidden myself to check herpes forums for a while. Anyway its something called cathrizonale or something like that. But lately i feel so tendee ariound openjng of the vagina :( doctor couldnt figure out what it was :((

Thank you botht. I have this more than 2 years though. First year was hard, secınd year no obs but after second year i have get minor obs back to back. But i am really lucky that i have him. He is little jealous but not obsessive jealous though but nobody is perfect. Lol :)

I think the universe hate me! I had my period early this month and for the first time my menstruation bring a full outbreak :( this is time location change also its seems like it affected my bartholin cyst so its so big look like a walnıt. My bf is a keeper so he didnt even ask to have sex. He is trying to do his best to make me comfortable. But we still couldnt make it :(

I bought the plant! :) lol. Thank you very much! I put st. john's worth oil also its already healed just dry patch. I wonder could i sex with my bf this weekend? ;) its been 2 months now. :'(

Thank you very much sweety. I went to the doctor and he said its look like chub-rub. My both inner thighs affected with it. And it was lots of heat in my city lately plus humudity. He gave me some oil plus medical shampoo for bacterial infection and its started to heal. its almost look like my regular skin except its sooo dry right now..

I am happy with my health, life and everythin except herpes. It doesn't bother me phsically cause its always mild but the idea of transmission that I hate. Maybe I will have a mild obs all my life but I can't know that if my bf transmit, he could affect by hard? This idea is making me sick!! In my country, its impossible to find a doctor with herpes education. I sometimes feel like I am the second person who has herpes. First one is my ex! lol.

Thaaank you very much. Food or alcohol never triggered my obs. I believe stress has a big affect on it which i have been very stressful due to my big exam to being a public teacher. Alsoi believe heat makes my thighs sweats alot so could be that. I am trying to keep my H- bf and thats make me stressful too. Everything that u said hard to find in Turkey. But i can grow a aleovera plant easily and i have desitin purple tube which helps alot. Actually i believe i was having a mild obs because after putting desitin on it, pimples scabbed over. Lately i feel like i am having a constant obs which i didnt have it for almost a year. I have been using valtrex since day one. I have never had a aggresive outbreak..it was always mild but itchy on firstday with muscles aches in left leg. But now sypmtoms gone and obs are coming in silent. Because of this i push my bf away because i dont want him to get it. I know there is always risk but i like to think i did my best and keep him out of it :( sorry for the bother you both. I just sick of tired not getting intimacy with bf cause of this. He accepts it but i believe i still couldnt

I know butin mh country i can reach outthe clinic easily and get swabbed. If they swab me and i have to wait for 10days for results :( I have been ob freefor 1year and lately i getting obs back to back whats wrong with me? Do u think virus could immune to valtrex? Its been 2 years thati have using it pls give me some advice i how can i rcgonize hrpes cause my obs were always mild now i dont grt any sypmtoms :(

Hello friends, I have herps for more than 2 years now. I always get my outbreaks quite mildjust little itchy! But latetly i feel like iam having reallly mild obs or prodromes. Actually, I am fine with the herpes thing but its been almost 2 mos now that i havent had sexwith my bf who i believestill negative.. Whenever he comesi feel like i am having obs or prodrom This time i found three pimpleish like spots close to eachother on my inner thigh. No itch, no pain. Its hurting little if i press on it kind a feel like pimple-reddish. I know its impossible to diagnose from the internet. Maybe you could give me some relief guys :((( pleaseee i fedl like i am a walking giant virus :(

I wish I can come to states and join Hopp weekend :(

Dear Friends, First of all, I would like to say, I am sorry for my english. Let me tell my story. I am 25 years old woman who lives and raised in Turkey as muslim. Off course my family was very modern and not a real fan of Islam. Anyway, I have been sexually active for 4 years. I had only 2 partner before H. One of them my highschool sweetheart and other one (who transmitted to H) 2 years monogamous relationship. My 2 years old relationship doesn't know he had Herpes. He was saying me he has some painful hair ingrown in his shaft and I insisted him to go to doctor. He tested for STD's + herpes and herpes2 came back positive. After he diagnosed, I got tested and it was negative. We weren't that educated and we had sex when the scabs was just fall off :( I didn't have outbreaks though but after I broke up I feel burning sensation around my clitoris. I go get tested for 2 times and it was negative again so I was sure I was free of herpes. After we broke up I started dating this great guy who I am still dating with for 11 months now. My bf and I were dating for 4 months then when I got my first ob. I immideatley go to hospital and they did a swab which came back positive. I came home and told my bf about the disease. He was wonderful and so supportive but I couldn't tell him that I was suspicious it before :( This feeling was killing me and I told him that my ex has it and I was suspicius about it :( He was so angry to me because if I tell the truth at first at least if I told him it could be herpes :( anyway he forgive me anyway because I was sure I was free of the virus ( 2 times tested both was negative) I had the worst prodrome symptoms for 3 months at least and after my first OB. I started daily valtrex. My bf still h free at least thats far we know. We started using condoms and I educated myself. Now I don't feel anything down south no prodrome nothing for 5 months straight and no outbreak for 9 months!!! yay to me :) I had lots of therapy. I felt so ugly, dirty even though I wasn't but now I feel great because sex is always dangerous! You never know who has what. At least I and my bf knows my risks ! I can deal with H very easily but my only concern is to transmit to disease to my loved one. I download handout pdf and give to my bf already :) He didn't even look at it because he said I love you and I know the risk! And he doesn't care. We don't have support system because its not easy to speak if its includes SEX in it!! Thank you for the support. Love!