excuses, excuses..

[willow]

.. what are you guys telling ur boss's when your really uncomfortable with an ob?

I deliver car parts for a living, and its hot as hell where i am, and not that working today will make it worse, just more uncomfortable..

I didnt go back to work yesterday after lunch, n just told the boss my sister wasnt feelin good and needed my to stay home to take care of her...

but what can i say today? "Oh hey boss man, my h ob is almost clearrd up but i dont feel like comming into work yet?"

ya... not gonna say that haha... i know this sounds kinda juvi here.. do i just lie again and say my sis still needs me?

 

[WCSDancer2010]

I'd ask to talk to him in private and tell him you have a medical issue that you'd rather not discuss, that you are getting treatment for, but that there are some days that you may not get to work while you get it under control.... that could be soooo many things .... and it's a safe answer. If you fake migraines or whatever, someone may start to talk about migraine meds and symptoms and you won't be able to fake it for long. It's a "truthful" explanation without telling him what it is ....

[willow]

Well hes also a friend of mine befor he was my boss, and he and his wife were there for me when i was going thru my depression stage. But in april when i got my neg blood test i told them just that. Now that i know im positive... i dont want him to know that, just my fam and the bf know the truth.

[willow]

Ahh screw it ill just tell him im sick. Even though he knows im not.

uhg stupid h....

thanks dancer, you have very good advise, maybe ill uave the courage to tell him what you told me tomorrow..

[WCSDancer2010]

Well, again, that is a simple way to tell the truth without giving him details .... and if he guesses, well, sounds like you trusted him enough to know the first time around so it likely wouldn't be the end of the world. But he's a guy ... odds are he'll just shrug it off and not put two and two together...LOL

[willow]

Ya maybe!