Holy crap, I think I just had sex while having an outbreak.....

[moonpie6]

I think I'm starting to have an outbreak and I literally just had sex (with a condom).... I just noticed a small bump inside my vagina. I've had no previous warning symptoms with this one and the bump does not hurt. Still, I'm pretty sure it's an outbreak. After we had sex, I started feeling that tingly feeling and upon further investigation, yes. Small red bump. I'm so scared!! Of course my partner knows I have herpes, but.... How likely is it that I just gave it to him?? He wore a condom and kept his boxers on and I also had my underwear on, so little skin to skin contact was made....And herpes can't pass through a condom right?

[moonpie6]

I mean... If it happens, it happens. He knows the risks involved. I do everything to prevent him from catching it. I take suppressive therapy daily, we use condoms every single time, we don't have sex when I have symptoms. I've tried really hard to keep him from catching it. If it still happens after all of this, I will still feel guilt. And I know I shouldn't. But I can't help it...

[murbs]

Very very unlikely. Don't stress too much about it. :)

[WCSDancer2010]

No - H can't get THROUGH the condom and from what you are describing, you would have had pretty minimal skin contact (props to you for using the belt-and-braces (or should I say, Boxers and Briefs approach to protect him!).

 

Just keep an eye on things ... if he washed after, that's all to the better ... but either way you should be fine ;)

 

(((HUGS)))