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"No" or no call backs are often a blessing

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I posted this as a comment on another discussion, but thought it'd also be a good discussion on it's own.


As we've discussed often on these forums, "no" can be a major blessing.


My friends and I were discussing the "joys" (major sarcasm) of online dating. I wasn't getting a lot of callbacks after first dates when I was online dating, so I decided to swallow my pride and ask a couple of the guys for feedback. I asked them to be brutally honest. One responded "I was just looking for a housewife" which I'm definitely not. Another one (props to him for really being honest), basically told me he just wanted to sleep with me and when he realized I was more of a long-term woman, he wasn't interested.


I wanted to share this because what I learned was that, in both cases, the "no" had nothing to do with me and their "no" was a blessing to me because neither of these guys wanted what I wanted.

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