How far do you go to tell someone who seems to be ignoring you?

[gijim70]

I just found out in the last month that I have herpes2. Went through the hard part of telling the partner I'm with that I infected her. My problem is before her, I hooked up with a ex and I'm sure she is the one that gave it to me. I'm not mad at her just think she should know. I've sent her a txt and a facebook message to contact me and nothing. Do I just tell her in a message or do I leave a letter on her door. Maybe she knows and doesn't want to talk to me. I just need a little advice

[Bambina3]

If she doesn't respond, I wouldn't go to any greater lengths to let her know...besides, you think it was her, but were you both virgins? Never cheat until seperation ? You can have hsv for years, even decades like myself, and not show signs or symptons.

[OutOfWit]

You did the right thing by trying. Maybe just tell her to go get tested and leave the ball in her court. Sorry you are going through this.

[MMissouri]

I agree with the other posters. You tried. I'd leave it at that.