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[Notgoingthere]

So I just wanted to know what all of you guys do? Dating online is what most people do now a days, so do you just go throw it on your page...”hey I’ve got herpes don’t swipe right if you can’t deal.” 

Or do you guys wait till your in a commited relationship first? 

So yea I think this will be a helpful thread.

[Jenn88]

I’ve kind of been wondering the same thing.... like how do u tell someone? Anyone? I’ve really thought about not dating at all honestly.

 

but there is this guy I am I love wirh he is literally my best friend we used to sleep together we called it off a few months before I found out I had H.  He is literally The only person I want to be with and I’m scared if I tell

him we won’t be friends or worse he worh start to think maybe I gave him something 

[Notgoingthere]

I honestly don’t know what to tell you @Jenn88! I wish I knew. I am the type of person who loves loving.. i don’t know I keep going back and forth should I just risk the rejection and keep trying to find someone or should I just give up momentarily until I get answers. 

[Jenn88]

I am the same way/ I have always been in love with the idea of being in love and now I don’t l Know. I feel like I can’t go on a dating app bc I’m looking for a normal guy to what? Infect? That’s how I feel ppl will look at me 

[sweetlove884]

For me, if I went back on Tinder I wouldn't put it in my profile in case someone I knew saw it. But I would tell right away. 

It's too time consuming to wait for me. I try to be efficient.  I only had so much time available to search 

[Amando]

Hi

Definitely date & yes 100% you should risk the rejection, the best things in life are the ones that come with risks 🙂

I certainly would not put it on your profile, also I wouldn't tell them straight away!
Personally I think the chance of rejection is high if you tell someone off the bat.

Its a great thing to love to love, don't change, be you, be the same.
Get to know the person more, then when you know it is getting to a stage where you think its likely to get intimate
have the talk, some people will be fine with it, they really will.
Obviously some will not & some you think have been fine will change after they have processed it but F**k them, they clearly weren't right for you.
We have all dated someone before & they have left/dumped you for other reasons.
Yes it hurts but we have to get up dust ourselves down & go again.

Always be incredibly stubborn, never ever give up, you are so worth it 🙂

You will find love, good luck to all