I'm attempting to get back in the dating scene after a 9 year marriage is at its end. I contracted HSV on my wedding night. After a few years, my marriage was sexless. Prior to my marriage I was celibate for 7 years. After the experience I'm about to share, I've really been feeling that was a mistake. Because of other things in our marriage, I decided to move on. However, it was the scariest decision for me to make because he already knew, and I knew I was going to have to tell whoever I became interested in after moving on. Well, after having a few dates with someone and us both being attracted to one another, I decided to disclose to somewhat I met online while we were face to face. I gave him a shortened version of my backstory that I contracted on my wedding night, am not currently experiencing symptoms and have not for some time. He said "Thank you for telling me," got up from where he was without saying anything else, gathered his things, and walked out. I understand that someone like this I would not have wanted in my life anyway, because of his response, however it caught me by surprise and hurt like I haven't been hurt since learning I was HSV+. I was in shock initially. This was just last night (9/22/18), and I've spent the majority of my morning crying. I keep replaying unhealthy thoughts about my sex life being over and that I've made a mistake because I'll end up unlovable. Any advice on how to disclose better and ways that you recover from the sting of someone's response? I'm going to spend some time reading what's already on, but I think I'm in need of direct support today. Thanks, in advance.