I was told in May that the person I used to date might have HSV. Not too long after that, I started getting raised, itchy bumps on my thighs. Since then, I have a constant itch in my groin, random white heads down there, random raised flesh spots, and tiny pin prick-like sensations. Sometimes I can see a cluster or red spots beneath the skin, but they never come up to the surface. I also have a constant itch on my anus. My scrotum has been red (and sometimes itchy) for months now. Through all of this, no ulcers or open sores with scabbing areoccurring.
I do not have pain when I pee nor do I have discharge.
The girl I’m currently seeing and I both had colds, and our lips starting tingling, and we developed white bumps beneath the skin of the top lip. However, through all of this, no sores have ever appeared, but my lips are constantly tingling/numb. The Dermatologist said it's Fordyce spots, but could not explain why my lips tingle and my girlfriend contracted the exact same thing at the exact same time. This girl also has constant itching at the entrance to her vagina after sleeping with me.
I've showed my Primary Care doctor and Dermatologist photos tracking the symptoms, and they are not convinced it's HSV. My blood work has come back negative, and the doctors can't explain why the girl I'm seeing is experiencing the same lip symptoms as I am.
Everyone is telling me it’s in my head. How could all three of these things be happening in place where HSV lives, and I don’t have it.