lesbian with genital herpes hsv1, can my gf catch it or have it also?

[PlzHelpMe]

i never took the meds provided.. she gives me oral.. but I don't think she has caught it shes never been sick cept with minor colds.. and one time she said she had uclers at the root of her mouth cause something hot she ate.. um.. I never seen any bumps.. on me or her.. but I itch and burn.. I never told her last time we had sex was 2 weds again.. well and we grind vaginas.. but I don't think shes sick she never gets tested

[PlzHelpMe]

I also have it at the mouth

[OutOfWit]

Have her get tested. Unfortunately if she is positive it still will not tell you "where" she has it. But if she is negative try to use precautions so she doesn't contract it.

[PlzHelpMe]

I want her to catch it but I don't think she is sick tho I don't think she has caughtit

[PlzHelpMe]

She fucks around on me with men and women

[WCSDancer2010]

Uh - you WANT her to catch it?? Sorry but we can't support that kind of behavior here ... even if she is cheating on you ... I mean, why the hell do you want to be with her if she cheats on you anyway???

 

Yes - you CAN pass it to her ... but just because she cheats doesn't make it "right" for you to give it to her. If you think that will make her "stay" with you, then thats manipulation and I can tell you it WILL backfire on you over time ....

 

You've been on here awhile ... and you said awhile back you had not disclosed to her ... our replies now will not be any different than they were then. You need to get enough self worth to LEAVE that relationship if she's cheating on you ... and hopefully with time, you might find someone who you can trust to disclose to and find REAL love and affection ... rather than staying with someone who is messing around on you :(

[OutOfWit]

What!! I don't even know what to say there. Regardless of her behavior you are responsible for your own actions. Leave the relationship. I can't believe anyone would knowingly want to pass this virus on to someone -

[seeker]

at the risk of seeming judgmental, I think my head exploded a little.

[MMissouri]

I echo seeker, wtf? Wrong, just wrong. (yes, that was judgmental, sorry.)