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I think it's normal to have ob after or during your period. I have them too but very mild.

@LaurenElise i don't remember exactly but i couldn't pee or feel the urge to pee for like 1-3 weeks. Nowadays I can feel the urge and pee by myself but it's not the same 😞

@organicmama would you mind sharing which supplements do you take? I'll appreciate a lot 😊

Really it's possible to form a loving family with someone who doesn't have H or we should be exclusively date H+? Where I live it's very stigmatized any std's and i feel like there's no chance to find a person 😔

It sucks so bad!

@Findingmyself I feel the exact same way... 😭 I broke up with the person who gave me this and honestly I have ups and downs thinking if I can meet someone who accept and love me in the future. I hurt myself because I search on google if people would date someone with H and a lot of people wouldn't and then I think of all the people in here who tells their successfull stories about finding true love but idk... i think i'm gonna end up alone too...

Finally I see someone talking about this! I had a similar problem with my first OB. Long story short I couldn't pee and didn't feel the urge to pee at all when I had my first OB... told my gynob and told me that herpes can damage or affect the nerves so she gave me complex vitamin B for 2 months to nourish the nerves and for like 1 week she prescribed me emselex to relax my bladder because I was soo scared about it. It has been 6 months since that happened to me and i gotta say that it got better! Now I feel the urge to pee (sadly not like before) but more normal I guess... so my advice will be to take the comples vitamin B so you can boost your immune system and nourish the nerves :) Good vibes!

@Findingmyself did you got a conclussion?

I have similar problems since my first OB. My doc told me that the hemorroids were caused by stress... idk if someone could inform us about it would be awesome because it sucks!

Hey! @Jason totally understand you and to be honest it's ok to feel like your are feeling. IMO time, reading about this and focusing on take care and improve yourself will help you a lot! You are not alone and work every day in change your focus! 🙂

Why it's "ok" or "normal" to not disclose if you get cold sores but if you have them in your private area it's wrong to not disclose? I know that it's for the stigma and bla bla but wtf I mean at the end of the day it's the same virus...

Also I know that staying with him it's a comfort zone and it's scary to get out of it... but hey! maybe life has something better for us out of the comfort zone! 😉

Hi @monolaurinismyfriend i totally understand you. I was feeling the same way you described. And i'm gonna tell you that 4 days ago I broke up with my bf, my first time EVER and of course my giver. I broke up with him for another reasons and let me tell you that I feel so much better. I would be lying if I tell you that i'm not worried about dating or if I would find a couple in the future but what calms me down it's to have my mind focused on another things to improve on myself than dating or wondering if someone would love me knowing that I have this condition... The time would say! And my advice would be that if you are no longer happy or whatever reason you are thinking in break up with him do it! And date yourself and make yourself happy 🙂 Good vibes!

@Amando thank you so much!! I've never been with the psychologist and now that I think I need it I have high hopes of it 😊 Blessings!

I'm planning to go with my bf to coulpe therapy (mainly for another reasons) and my question is if it's a good idea to bring up the H topic with the psychologist? Or it's not the place to do it? And can I be very open about it or should I stay reserved?

@MissGuided thank you so much! Some days are better than others but I guess with time I'll feel better. Blessings!!

The other day I told my mom that I was going to wash my towels and she told me to wash hers together with mine but then she stop and asked me or better not?... i felt sad after hearing that question bc I knew it was about the H topic... anyways my question is: Can I wash my towels together with the towels of my family? Or should I wash mine separately? Any risk?

@sweetlove884 no no no, I mean a partner, someone who will accept you with H. Hahah sorry english it's not my native language.

@bubbles0990 visually 🙄 because my gynob told me that I had to wait lika 6 months to take the test... so i think i won't know if it was a new infection or not right? Just the type 😖 But I mean, i wasn't having an ob how likely it is to transmit it to the mouth?

@sarahsfocus omg that's confussing! I haven't had any blood test but looking to get them soon to know which strain I have (i was visually diagnosed like 5 months ago) so that's why I'm very confussed 😖. Thabk you so much !!

Omg im shy talking about this haha... So, yesterday was my first time recieving oral after I knew I had herpes but we didn't used protection... (my partner has H too but also don't know which strain...) It is truuully necessary to use dental dams/condoms when your partner gives you oral sex? (In my case that idk if I have hsv1 or hsv2 😖)

@lifeisarollercoaster thank you so much! 😊

Totally understand you. I'm 25 and I feel the same way 😪 I would tell you that you shouldn't feel that way and that if you end the relationship you will find someone who fullfill you and so... and that's true! It's easier to say it than feel/do it.

Don't worry I would feel betrayed too, because we are adults now and have to be responsible and care about our partners and expecting the same way back... so yes, It would be great if our partners were honest and open about this because at the end of the day there should be trust and hidding stuff like this shows the opposite...

Hugs to you too! If any time you wanna talk i'm here for you 😊