Might I suggest reporting these people to their superiors? Completely unprofessional and a fireable offense.
Other than that, you are not unwanted, you are not gross. I know this is a hard thing to wrap your head around, everyone struggles when they first learn they have the virus. But remember, this virus is VERY common, and it is a very sneaky virus, you can get it from something as simple as someone with a cold sore that goes down on you. Most people don't even know they have it. This virus doesn't change who you are, it adds something to your personality. Telling future partners seems scary, but if you've read up on it, know your facts, and are confident when talking about it, odds are you won't have a problem. That doesn't mean you won't run into women who aren't comfortable with it, because odds are you will. And that is okay! It happens! If you want to talk more, feel free to message me and I'll tell you what helped me to gain my confidence back and get out there again. Best of luck!