peterk

right on

I agree there are a lot of people who say "ewe herpes" when they are only covering for their own infection.

I was raised a traditional catholic so I was scared to death about pregnancy. When the girls got aggressive I became like Monte Python and the Holy Grail. After they got to the castle full of horny virgins I kept thinking "Run away, Run Away"

Gawd what I would do to do it over again with the knowledge I have now. At 17 I was still trying to figure out how to put it in.

OK. Congrats then.

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The issue is much much bigger than people know since so many keep it quite. In the military its widespread and since you can get kicked out for getting an STP like syph or the clap as an officer or at least greatly hurt your career, the officers plead with the docs to file under a non damaging category. I know this cause my friend was a doc in the air force.

are you selling something?

So he would wear it proudly and not realize the meaning. What a Guy. Maybe you should get two of em. one for him and one for his next victim. only the arrow needs to be pointing at him.

There is a tshirt you can buy with a big arrow pointing to the zipper with a caption "I'm with stupid". You can send it to him as a present. If you want Ill tell you how to buy it in your inbox. That should make his day.

well Michael Douglas admiitted to it publically and the Hollywood crowd is a pretty promiscuis bunch. From the casting couch to the cocktail parties they like to take advantage of their celebrity. Same with the music biz. Horrible story about the young lady though.

yes thats the way you do it

Yes thats exacly right. He is in living hell because most of us go through life like we are in a room full of mirrors. All we can see is ourselves. The only way to change is to smash the mirrors. Once you do that you can begin to understand other people and why they do what they do. We are born innocent and shaped by our genetic code, our environment, and hopefully rich parents (luck). Your emotions are universally felt by many others but it is just that they are still stuck in the roomful of mirrors. There are almost 7 billion people on the planet and growing exponentially if we don't figure out how to get along nature will do it for us.

Get tons of sleep but not with drugs except for maybe one or two glasses of really good red and soon. Listen to the words of Paul McCartneys Yesterday a couple of times and then forget about it. Cause that song is BS. I have an idea for you. Make plans for the (Burning Man) festival on labor day weekend. The burning man symbolizes the burning away of past feelings like an old relationship. Get some friends and make plans. A lot of people have done that out here and loved it. search for Buningmanfestival

speaking of anti-depressants stay away from the ones that are supposed to help you sleep. The side effects like amnesia, anxiety, etc are not worth it. I'm speaking of ambien, Seroquel, and many others. They steal your rem sleep which is the bodies natural way to deal with issues. IMHO

Well said

Dancer I didn't realize you went into the rabbit hole a few years back. Not a good place to be. I think its an extremely lonely place and the only way I know out is to start a new project while meeting new people and new friends.

tea tree oil is great for prevention so as to dry out the area before it starts but its probably not so good for the healing process

IME If you stop taking the med then the outbreak will return and you will start getting OB again.

I agree with Herry. You will lose em if you don't tell em and he gets it for sure.

lots of references here in multiple posts including tea tree oil and vit e plus certain soaps.

Welcome to the club Miss. If you look through a lot of the discussions here you will find dozens of similar stories as yours. My opinion based on your story is that he has had it a long time so he didn't think he was active enough to give it to you, He'll believe you but I don't know what his feelings are about you so its hard to know which way he is going to go. Soon some others will post some good advice so be patient.

what got you into this mess was using the wrong head for praying and your pal has not been the sharpest knife in the drawer lately.

Guess he meant from doing it to too many women.

He said that publicly which totally pissed off his wife. But you know what I mean.