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The only time I feel like my Pee is flowing right is in a warm bath of Epsom salt.this has been a pain in my ass don't really like baths. Has this got better over time for others? I know I need to be drinking more water have tried to stay away from cola only a few in a month. I have high antibodies but first ob it seems to last a long time. Does the skin heal all the way as mine still pinkish and lil sore. Male on penis head. Thanks for all info!

Yes I have been taking a salt bath everyday.my wife works in field where she works with lot of doctors she doesn't want them to look up her file? I have told her I want her to go but I know she really doesn't want to I have not tried any other but a few olive oil extract pills and the alvoycore?for 10 days now I'm done trying to drink smoothy everyday? will try and ask here to go again.i seen you said in other post if you do have sign of ob you can make new spot on other areas ? Thanks for info your the best!!

This has been very hard for me being a male mid age have everything going for me and this "pops" up. I held it in best as possible for thanksgiving.My in laws must of know something was up from me dry heaving in middle of night for a week!but my mom came over one day and she could tell something was killing me so I broke down and told her I felt I got in not being faithful and I was in pain to me I could feel it in my body from shooting pain to middle of back and base of spine crazy as I could feel it moving around.she has been good support telling me if it's the same thing nana had show up on her and never come back. One time thing? My dad was good to not really knowing what to say he just put his arm on my shoulder as I told him what I felt. that I felt I got it on my last trip. that my blood work after two weeks was a 5 pos igg and I have been told by a few people now that it's been in me at least 3 months or more and I most likely got it from wife all the oral she does on me having cold sores as a kid? I told him I still feel that I got it on trip in my heart. His word you don't need this you already stress to much.that is more than the truth I was always stressing over nothing if I could of only known. Has anyone that see this been tested that soon after possible first exposer and had that high 5 after few weeks? Now I'm thinking this high hsv1 antibody were there and maybe hsv2 had not show up on blood work yet there were no igm for h2 ? Now the only thing to do is get another blood test in few months or talk my wife into going to doc to get typed. She has two small looking blisters that have not opened but aren't really changing? Would they have to open one to swab. How long will they stay looking the same? I have to stay strong for my family. When will that constant sting go away bout to drive me over the edge only time feel ok in a warm bath. Mornings are the worst.

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Thanks so much for your time. Helping me more than you know!!

Yes don't want to be painful for her. She said she can not feel anything but I don't want her to. Plan on holding off sucks very bad. Would you make new sores show up on new spots from the sex act. thinking if I only have it show up on my head or her one spot it will be all over " more sores" different location ? Also my sore is closed but still looks pink on and kinda like jumping around. Not cool how long should it take to start looking normal or do some people stay looking pinkish ? This has been going on like a month I'm hoping on the better side of this!!! It seems to me from just getting one out myself "couldn't take it any longer" that is best left alone seems to not help.That one best things in life has to be put on hold?

I have found info on other post someone said you can make it show up on other spots or worse by having sex with any sign of outbreak.i would like to know as my sore are pretty much gone and my wife has to small looking blisters that have not broke open and seem to get smaller I don't want to make healing time any longer for us? She does not want to go to doc?she is breastfeeding and wants no meds in her body. So anyone that has been in long term where both of you had it did you stop or hold back during any signs of ob ? Did you make other spots show up or anything bad? Thanks for any feedback!

Thanks for the fast response west coast dancer. Yes I do feel I need some help getting over my guilt and anger. What I am most scared if is passing it on to my lil girl only 8 months old that would kill me I am taking care of her all day as I work sessional and wife has 8to 5 I have washed my hands so much I'm going crazy. I just want to be able to enjoy this time in her life and I feel h is robbing me blind of that.this could not of come up at a worse time in my life.also what are the odds I give to my wife from only one time out of the hundreds we have sex and that why I feel it was primary infection and that why I'm so scared of giving to lil one every lil red spot I see on her I start freeking out and bout have a melt down I do ok by end of day but when I wake up next morning that feeling is there to greet my day?? How often if it ends up only being hsv1 do they come back for other folks I have herd from none to a lot.i plan on getting other blood test in few month to make sure? Thanks to everyone helping

I found out have hsv1 right before thanksgiving was the worst.I have had very bad guilt along with pain trying to pee feel little tingling in my balls everyday just to let me know it there and not a bad dream that I feel like I'm living everyday. The sore has almost gone but I still feel like shit. The worst thing is I feel like I got it not being faithfully to my wife on a trip in nov from handjob in Costa Rica my fav place but now never want to go back. It was a massage that wish I would of never got.the girl look like she had bad zits on her face but I never new anything about skin on skin.thinking I was safe? Her hands were not smooth so now I feel like she might if had it on her hand also? I have told my wife and she doesn't think I got it that way saying that she most likely gave it to me because she does oral everytime and she had cold sores as kid but I have never seen her with one.i just feel in my chest that she did not give me this.that god is punishing me for being a pos but know she has a few spots on her!she is ok with it somehow a few of her friends have it and she is saying it will never come back being hsv1 doesn't like down south.i hope is are case. I am trying to be strong we have a heathy lil girl 8 months that I need to put all my love and time in. I not eating much and all I can think is I the worst guy out there. I got my blood work done maybe a week or two after I got back the was neg igm and igg 5pos hsv1 my wife saying it was already in me a lot of info I found backs that up but not all. Some say it could be a new infection that I feel it is. I was in a lot if pain and sore all over now just tingling and my lil man feels not the same? Almost like uti I hope that goes away very soon. I just hope my mind can stop eating me alive. I feel I am a disgrace to my family.